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Do You Believe In Love At First Sight?

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oxLaurenxo (Age:18 to 24)     When: 3 months ago
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Well do you? I don't really think I do. I know a lot of guys will use the "love at first sight" line just to make her smile or to get her to have sex with you. My boyfriend (1 year 3 months) told me that he thought he loved me the second he met me but I'm not sure if he really meant it or if it was just a line. Vote in the poll and comment please.

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Just-A-Random-Guy
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Just-A-Random-Guy (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
No. I grow to love somebody. "Love at first sight" is basically attraction to the person physically. I don't buy that horse sh*t that your boyfriend said, but what do I know, I'm Just A Random Guy.
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Hunterboyz
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Hunterboyz (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Love is more complicated than just to believe you can have it upon sight.
I do believe thinks you are a sight to be seen, and judging from your photo, you are very pretty, but to say LOVE at first sight with anyone is impossible.

Love is an understood commitment. So to commit your self when you first meet them without ever knowing them, personality wise, is clear foolish to believe.

I can see how a guy would not want to lose you, and that is showing commitment, but love goes past a pretty face. Its understanding the negatives as well as the positives, and sticking by that person through good or bad.
Good Luck Pretty Face!

Sincerely,
A Loving Black Man
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homer Very well said Hunterboyz. Agree with you completely. The phrase "I love you, this, that" is used so heavily these days that I am not even sure whether people are aware of what it may mean when they hear it or say it. I am a fan of the good ol' actions vs words phrase. - 3 months ago

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zeebeda (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
I believe in love at first sight. I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years 3 months. When I first met her, I knew without a doubt that I wanted to be with her. Everything about her was perfect. After the first time we met, I didn't see her for a couple of months, but I never stopped thinking about her. When I finally did meet her again, we became friends. We hung out as just friends for a couple of months getting to know each other. Then we started dating.
We are waiting until we are married to have sex, so there is no advantage for me to lie about it to her. However, I do think that a lot of guys say that they fell in love at first sight as a way to get in a girls pants, but that is not always the case. There are guys who genuinely fall in love with someone from the first time they meet.
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Belleza
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Belleza (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
No I don't believe in love at first sight because love grows, it evolves it's something that doesn't happen overnight or when you have sex or something! But some part of me does believe love at first sight does exist but that could happen from 1 out of a million!
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annwyl-cariad (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
What most people refer to as "love at first sight" is really lust at first sight. I do believe, however, that you can love someone the moment you meet them. This is different from loving someone the moment you SEE them. My uncle had one conversation with a woman once and called my grandmother immediately afterwards and told her, "I've just met the woman I'm going to marry. " They were engaged two months later, wed four months after that, and will soon celebrate their fifth wedding anniversary. I have never seen two people love each other as much as they do.

Love is based on personality and emotional compatibility, and you can't know that from just looking at someone. But one conversation is sometimes all it takes. And that may well be the case with you and your boyfriend.
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