What do guys look for in a girl, is it desperate for a girl to call the guy?

Screw the hard to get, its a load of BS and it will save both ( if not just the guy that you 'like') a lot of stress. I mean why the heck would you not call him? you like him don't ya? Be yourself. And if they 'Think' your desperate, no big deal, move on, you've been yourself and it probably means you two weren't compatible anyway.

I agree with rosynante. Just be yourself. Do whatever you feel like while keeping a clear conscience. Most times you become like your friends anyway, so the more you pretend to be someone you are not just because it is cool, or others think so, the more it might get difficult for you to do what you REALLY want to do.

they look for in a girl like if you were more of a friend then a girlfriend he has to be like it was one of his guy friends that doesn't mean you can't do the things a boyfriend and girlfriend can do

Hey gal,

I guess this depends more on where the relationship is at the moment. Like if you just started dating this guy, then I would let him to do more of the calling. I mean of course you can return your calls, but how are you going to know if he is really that into you, if you are the one calling him all the time?

The reason why I'm thinking that we call them all the time, is because somehow we want a level of control over the situation. If you call him, then you don't feel vulnerable because he hasn't called you yet. If that makes sense. But to counter that its a very empowering feeling to let the guy call you when you are initially just starting in the whole dating process and then you can ease slowly into it from there.

The one think that I would say, is that if you do start seeing someone, then don't forget to keep spending time with yourself and having a full life. He will usually pick this up and it makes you much more attractive and appealing.

Hope this helps

Hot Alpha Female

This all varies with the type of guy we are talking about. If he is super serious and needs to loosen up then he may be looking for a wild girl or maybe he wants someone just like him. It all just depends on their personality. You can call them just don't call them 30x a day because I'm sure that's a little bit annoying. If you haven't heard of the rule already.. wait at least 2 days before calling back lol.. that's not always the case but try that.

Depends on the guy but I'd err on the side of laid back. That is, of course, if you are catering your personality for a guy. (Never ends up well) Just be yourself!