Here's my problem: I've been friends with this guy for going on eight years now . We lost touch for about five of those years after our time together in college was over . When we started chatting again I learned that he had moved to another province to be with his girlfriend, who he started dating while we were in school .
The interesting and confusing behavior started while when I told him that back in our school years I had a crush on him and still have lingering feeling for him . He told me that he always knew and that he felt the same . From then on our chats got more intense and serious about our feeling for each other . It got so serious that he used the 'L' word multiple times .
What I'm wondering is if he is still so in love with his girlfriend, why continue this flirtation with me . Is all just for the attention or could it be something more ?
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Well he got up and moved for her. It would be hard to give up and say he doesn't love her anymore. That would mean he would have to move back. He might be just trying to trick his mind into thinking his still loves her so he won't realize he made a mistake by moving. But I think he probably likes you and he just doesn't want to admit he was wrong and have to move back. So he might be trying to make things seem hunky dory. This all works out in my head and it is hard to explain,I hope you understand!
WAW all my friends keep telling me that he's just using me to boost his ego, but I know him and I know he's that kind of guy!! I completely understand what your say and thanks :D - 2 months ago
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No problem! Hopes everything works out - 2 months ago
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