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How can I make her realize?

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juice (Age:Under 18)     When: 3 months ago
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I love my girlfriend I really do but for some reason she is really insecure and she has gone through a lot in her life and she has the feeling that she is not making me happy and just for the fact that she thinks that she has stopped doing the things that did make me happy like she thinks she is not good enough for me so she does not try anymore so then it causes arguments how can I make her confident again and how can I make her understand how happy she used to make me so she starts being the person she was again

She used to be happy and flirty and caring and loving but now she seems colder and bitchier and sad and she tells me that she does not feel like she is making me happy so she stops being all loving and happy then she behaves different and that's when I don't like it as much which causes problems

I need help please anything would be helpful

P. S. This is not about sex its more like on an everyday basis attitude with each other

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maryjane19 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
I was the same way with my now ex. Make sure you respect her. Don't talk about how think other girls are attractive. Compliment her too. The thing is you can't solve this problem for her. Just let her know that you value her as a person. She has to be happy with herself first. Maybe she should take the spiritual route. You could always pray for her. I hope she overcomes this.
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LilMiss (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
I'm going through this with my boyfriend. I'm really insecure. Best advice I can give you is make her feel like she's on a pedestal. Don't check out girls in front of her, compliment her and make her feel beautiful. Tell her how happy she makes you and why you choose to be with her over anyone else in the world. Just keep reassuring her and she'll come around. Hope this helps!
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