I know some girls can take comments about their body as somewhat of a derogatory thing, but if you are complimenting your girlfriends body would she be upset. She has incredible legs, a great butt, nice abs, beautiful eyes and everything and I've told her that but I just don't really know how she interprets this. I mean everything I say about her body as a compliment. She's beautiful! And I'm really into fitness so I like the human body and think it's a beautiful thing. I just don't want her to think I'm a pig and just want to get into her pants. What are you opinions?
Say what you mean and mean what you say. She love compliments. But don't act as if you want something from her. Tel her she is beautiful. She is sexy and so. But make her feel you have a good intention to her. Actions speaks louder than words right?
I agree to what they have said. Well. Girls do like compliments. But sometimes When obviously repeated. A girl would think she is being fooled. Or there is something that the guy wants from her. If you really admire your girl's body. Its good to let her know. But do not repeat it over and over again. It is much better to comment more on the inner aspect of ur girlfriend. I mean the personality. Because by doing that. She gets to realize her worth more.
When you make a comment about her body, maybe you should say it exactly the way you said it to us: "I like the human body and think it's a beautiful thing. " and then follow it by your comment. Also, if your girlfriend is very much into fitness she will definitely appreciate the comment ("hey all that work is finally paying off! ) I don't think it's appropriate for guys to make comments about a girl's body in front of other girls, it just really disrespectful and degrading. Girls are not a piece of meat. On the other hand, when in the company of guys, I think its considered more appropriate. And yes, if you are making a comment don't make it loud or so obvious as to possibly embrass the girl you are commenting (I think that is fairly obvious).
As well, it is important to understand that outward beauty is not age-less, like say intellect, knowledge, opinion etc. Every body, every face eventually ages and is no where as attractive is at is in youth. And that is when something like where ones mind is valued. Women concentrate so much on being beautiful for other men (sort of referred to as voyuerism), that in the process they loose themselves. I think, men as brothers, husbands, fiances need to appreciate a women first and foremost for her intelligence, wit, and brilliance. And of course, a great pair of legs doesn't hurt either.
I agree with Juice. If a girl is always hearing the same compliment from every guy, not only does it get old and the compliment loses it's meaning, but you don't stand out from the crowd of other men. Btw, men who usually want to get in a woman's pants, shower her with compliments about her body. Even if you may not, she may stick you into the same stereotype. Compliment her personality, intelligence, sense of humor. You could even compliment her nose if you think that's a really cute feature of her's, but steer clear of the usual and/or body parts that are usually lusted after. Good Luck =]
Well try complimenting her in something not everyone notices like how smart she is or how well she does things because compliments are better if you have only heard them once not a million times well like my girlfriend she has a great body too but I admire and compliment her personallity and her spirt and the way she does things because everyone can see she has a great body but not many people realizes her personallity
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