What are some good ways to get a girl you just met to open up to you?

Personally speaking, I would LOVE the idea of random people/strangers walking up to me and saying "HEY SUP? " I think the best way to have the girl to open up to you is to just ask her about herself. She'll be in a position to let you know at least something about her for you to work with. Be open and determine. Sound confident and let her know that her personality is amazing and that she is a great person. Of course not lie about anything.

Just making yourself open and trying to relate to the other person can be one way to have other open to you. Be yourself and sound like you know exactly what you are up to and the ideas you have in mind.

I know this is not much but I hope it helps you at least a little bit.

Notice which girls admire your sense and which don't. Look for the girl who shares your odd-ball sense of humor. You describe yourself who is willingly to take risks (to make people loosen up) with your sense of humor. Remember, some people will ALWAYS find your jokes weird while others will really be taken-away-with-it. Look for the latter. Excellent that you have the confidence and risk to do this! Your willing to make yourself stand-out-amongst others. Trust me, the girl that notices you and appreciates you. Will do that right off the bat. She will appreciate your forwardness, your risk, and of course you being yourself. Yes, I agree sometimes societies 'nice-e-tees' can be so over to the top, that meeting new people can seem like a boring --- everyone is too concerned with playing it safe. Sometimes, hiding their true selves (their humor). As long as your fairly tasteful and considerate. I think most women would be impressed. Of course it all depends on who she is.

Lol people always look at me when I'm on a night out on the town or on holidays and just see a big sign that says don't come near me! Lol. And I don't know why because I love meeting new people. A guy on holiday recently told me he thought I wouldn't be nice and talk to him if he approached me and was shocked at how easy going i am why I don't know? So be proud that you will break the ice I like people like that and I think a lot of girls do and weird sense of humors are great I have one and so do most of my friends and I wouldn't change it makes us interesting lol

Just being yourself. A weird sense of humor is a huge plus by the way! Pickup lines come off ass creepy unless they're the cheesy adorable ones being said by an attractive guy lol.

Hey Coltdiddy

A better way to put it is a question that you can ask your self. If I was out on the town how would I like to be approached? A sense of humor is always a good start, as I am sure if you get people laughing they will like you more, but it is also a fine line because you don't want to seek approval too much from the group or any one particular woman.

One thing that I find can work wonders is what is known as a false time constraint. Most people think when someone new, or a stranger approaches is how long is this person going to hang around us. If you walk up, chat for a sec make the women laugh and then look like you are busy or in a hurry, which is an illusion they are more likely to be a little warmer to you so worst case if it doesn't hook they know you will be leaving soon anyway.

Also what value besides humor can you bring a group of women? Just like in the animal kingdom humans are pack animals, so it would be obvious that these women will want to align themselves with a fantastic guy that comes across as the complete package, and not the same as the rest of the men out there.

Value to me is to show that other women already are attracted to you. Women like to know that other women want you. Are you a protector of loved ones? , do you naturally love to lead women, through out a journey to adventure and excitement?. Do you know how to take care of a woman in the bedroom? And leave her begging for more, these are things that will display legitimate value to her when it comes to her attractions switches and how she is wired from the factory. In other words more people are on auto pilot and when she tells stories to her girlfriend about this fantastic guy she met, she will say one thing just led to another and before you know we were.

Frosty

Why don't you try opening up to her but in a causal way don't just go up to someone and start talking about personal stuff no but tell her stories about yourself and ask her questions about her and slowly but surely she will start doing the same and and being funny is a great quality I am a funny guy too and it helps a lot to break the ice because for funny people breaking the ice is their "comfort zone"