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Does love really exist?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 7 months ago
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Is love real? I mean, ROMANTIC love. Not the love you feel for family and friends.

Or is it just a fleeting moment shared between people and afterwards, once those first 1-2 months pass it dies and you tire of the person?

It seems so impossible to find, like all guys are losers and incapable of true love and faithfulness.

Are we girls doomed to a lifetime of dating heartless losers?

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The-Nash
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The-Nash (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
There are men and there are boys. But now you can be an adult, but still act childish. So there's a grey area. But you can't just hate guys, they don't cheat by themselves. Hate the action, sometimes people change, but until they do, then you can hate them, lol. But seriously there are people who like to compete more than being morally correct, then there are people who are different, some are honest and considerate about what is dear to them. But since competition grows everyday, it takes a strong person to resist temptation from competition. And I don't think you're going to find too many of these type-of-guys in a bar, or at a club.

It sounds like you want a guy who isn't necessarily shy, but a guy who says a little and knows a lot, so he listens more intently to what you have to say.
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Bduffman1234
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Bduffman1234 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 7 months ago
I know people who have been sentenced to jail longer then marriages last. The path of love is the same path of lunacy
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juice
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juice (Age:Under 18)      When: 7 months ago
True love does exist I love my girlfriend very very much and I have never cheated on her and I never will and she loves me too but I think that in order for romantic love to be true both people have to be emotionally mature or on the same level like me and my girlfriend but if people are in different emotional levels (one is more mature than the other) true love is not as easy to find
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lucky1
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lucky1 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
Life is not a movie, so it is not that perfect happy ever after. But it is also not nothing, it is being happy even when you don't want to sometimes, it is having fights, but knowing that you will get over them and work it out because that would be better than living without that person. And it may not always be romantic, but sometimes the best thing is when you are just sitting there together saying nothing at all. It is different for everyone, and you have to work at it, both people do, it does not just come without work. I may never have had that ever lasting love, but I have been in love and seen my parents and grandparents. I kow that they love eachother by the way they simple look at eachother.
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epavlova
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epavlova (Age:Over 45)      When: 7 months ago
I think long-term romantic love is relatively rare, but I know it's real. I've been married to the same guy for over 20 years. Our love seems to grow deeper and stronger every year. Yes, there have been some (very) tough times, but we dug in and survived them together. So just keep looking for the right guy. And when you find him, give him your heart and soul, and then appreciate him like crazy!!
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Lost-In-Love
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Lost-In-Love (Age:Under 18)      When: 7 months ago
I believe love is real. And its not impossible to find, its just hard. Not all guys are the same. My advice is don't try to find love, let love find you. Don't give up.
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ohanaya
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ohanaya (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
Romantic love is what you make of it. I think it is hardly true that True Love will come up and smack you in the face. I think instead that its something you have to put together and work for. If you and your squeeze just sit and watch tv all night, there is no romance in that. Romance takes effort. But then effort pays off. You have to go out and do things.

There have actually been studies that show that when a couple goes and does things that they are both unfamiliar with, it strengthens the bond. The excitement and mild fear of doing something new and unfamiliar can be seen just as romantic as a candle lit dinner.

Its not a matter of dating heartless losers, its a matter of finding a guy who wants to put effort into making good memories, and help work to keep the romance going.
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kateluvszak
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kateluvszak (Age:Under 18)      When: 7 months ago
I've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 7 months and I love him so much. Its really hard to explain what love is. I think it's the feeling where you want to spend every minute of the day with them. No Matter what they say/do you still love them. They are all you think about and when you're with them you just want to hold onto them and never let go. No Matter what other people think/say you think that they are amazing and you wouldn't change them for the world. You only care what they think and how they will react to something. You never want to lose them. My boyfriend and I have little arguments and sometimes I hate the things he says or does but no matter how bad or annoying he is, I just can't help but love him. I love him more than anything in the world. I love how he makes me feel special and how he holds me and how he tucks my hair behind my ear before he's going to kiss me. I love the way he looks at me and how I am so comfortable with him. I know I can tell him anything. I would do anything for him and I know he would do anything for me. So my answer to you is "yes" Love is real. Well at least I think it is.
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ashleakate
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ashleakate (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
I think its true. I found one guy that I truly loved and still do. He still loves me to. He never cheated on me and we were together for 2 years. The only reason we split was due to him moving to canada. But as I say, I live in uk and even after 7 months of him being in canada, we still love each other despite the distance. I think its true, its just that some people tend to find it easier/quicker than other people. But I think everyone has a true love.
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