I'm a Black girl who is mainly attracted to White guys. Do any of you find Black girls attractive? Would you date one? Of the friends you have, how many of them care about what race their girlfriend is? How important is it to you?
Color means very little, but unfortunately I grew up in a country that has made a big deal out of it. South Africa has a highly covered history of racism, and one of the biggest horrors that occurred was the 'mixed marriages act' that forbade marriages across the race lines. It also nullified any previous cross-cultural marriages that had already taken place. Fortunately that is now over, so mixed marriages are far more common.
To actually answer your question, do I find black girls attractive? As I said, it matters little what color they are. What matters more to me is the girl herself. Are we compatible, or are we too different in what we want from life, or do we even have anything in common? That's what's important to me. I have found black women attractive, I can't deny that. The thing that matters to me, though, is whether we were compatible. Unfortunately the cultures are too different. One thing I might do that is perfectly acceptable to me, or even considered good manners, is the worst thing you can do to a black person from some SA cultural backgrounds. Also, some practices in their cultures can be a bad thing in my culture. In these cases, incompatibility is just too big an issue that will stop me from being anything further than thinking she's attractive. Some black girls that I've met are stunningly pretty, but because of this difference in culture and often beliefs, things won't go further. The same goes for any other culture for me. It's the behaviour and personality of the girl that makes all the difference in the world, not her looks. There are some cultures and ways of life though that I really like, though that's generally Asian, like Japanese or Chinese.
I like black girls. I'd date one, I find lots of them attractive, they're just as nice as white girls are, or any other girls for that matter.
I do know a lot of people, however, who would think otherwise. There is still a lot of racism out there, so any interracial relationship is bound to draw a few bad vibes.
Race is of no great importance to me in choosing a woman. Sexy is sexy, and I think a lot of people agree there, even if they are prejudiced about race in other ways.
I don't really care what race you are, you know, if you're attractive, then you're attractive. I have seen both attractive and unattractive white gals, and those of the other races. My friend never really talk about what race they want their girlfriend, and I do know of an interracial relationship.
To be honest, I live in an area that is mostly white. I grew up here and I think there was one black person in the whole school. Crazy huh? It actually has started to get better over the years, and we do have more of a diversity.
To be honest, I live in an area that is mostly white. I grew up here and I think there was one black person in the whole school. Crazy huh? It actually has started to get better over the years, and we do have more of a diversity.
Yeah my school only has five, I think that their should be more diversity in schools. Sorry that doesn't help you at all, but I as a girl don't see anything wrong with that. My step brother and his wife are like that an people don't seem to care - A month ago
Well Im a black girl and at the moment I dating this white guy. It depends where you hang out who you will meet and who you find attractive. I met my friend at a bar, I was the only black girl there but I met my white friend and I really like him. White guys do find us attractive, you just have to find the right one. Also some are very shy to approach us because they think we are mean. Lol
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