Worth the wait?

I have not had sex yet simple because I am not ready for that commitment I feel. It is a personal decision that is completely up to you. I do have a few friends who have had sex and wished that they would have waited but I also have friends that are happy they did not. I don't know if I will wait till marriage, I just know that I am not in that point in my life right now and my boyfriend and I have talked about it and he knows where I stand and is fine with waiting.

I am not married and not a virgin. I don't regret not waiting. I am a very sexual person, and if I married someone that just wasn't doing it for me in bed, I'd be disappointed. Sex is a big part of relationships, even if some people don't like to admit it. There has never been a time that I have thought, "Man, I should wait until my wedding day. "

But then again I've never been all that convinced that marriage is for me.

It's a personal decision though, do what you want, don't allow others to influence you.

I have not had sex yet, and I don't plan to until I get married. It really depends on you religious beliefs though. Being a Christian, I was brought up knowing that sex was for marriage, and not before. Besides, you have to look at the pregnancy aspect as well. You don't want to be one of those "I have a kid but I'm not married yet" couples. I would wait, and you will be glad you did once you find the right one.

I'm glad I lost mine when I was younger, I love having sex, there's some kinky girls out there I'll tell you that much, to me I would prefer that the girl is not a virgin if I dated her because I couldn't deal with that , to be honest I would cheat on her if she told me no sex till marriage or break up with her.

I had sex before I was married. I married my HS sweetheart. We have been together for 20 years now. I do not regret having sex before we were married, but also I had sex with other girls before I was with my wife. I think it is worth the wait. As weird as that may sound.

Just my opinion. I think that waiting to have sex until marriage is a noble idea and many religious groups would be proud. However, being sexually compatible with your partner is an important aspect of the union. You cannot know if you will be compatible in this area if you do not try it out. If you find out after marriage then things can become a little difficult to deal with.

I would never buy a cow without sampling the milk.