My boyfriend is always comparing me to his girl that is a friend. Comparing , I mean body to body. He says that I have a good ass and that she has nothing and that 1 of my legs is two of her legs. What I don't understand is why? I really don't like being compared to anyone but out of all people he compares me to his friend that is a girl. Does anyone have any suggestions
Update: Usually when comparisons come up its from a last girlfriend. What I don't understand is why he is comparing me to his female friend instead of maybe a past girlfriend. I wonder if this female friend was more to him then a friend before.
3 months ago
Well it could be that or he feels guilty for liking her as more and is trying to keep you from knowing. I don't know how this will turn out but it sounds rough.
It sounds to me like this guy doesn't know how to just give you a compliment. I would just brush it off he probably doesn't even know that he is doing it. I would have just one question did he ever doing anything with this girl friend. If he has he might be just trying to remind himself that you are better than her for some reason or another. Kinda weird. Good Luck
Depends if he is telling you that you are better than her. If so, then he's just giving you compliments in a not so nice way. if not, I don't really know what his game is... making you feel a bit jealous? I don't know, but I would just make it clear that you don't appreciate being compared and then not let him get started on you two (just change the subject). You also need to think about whether he is trying to tell you something with the way he talks about your body. Is he suggesting you need to get a bit more in shape or something? It might be a round about (and in his mind) less hurtful way of suggesting you could be more beautiful if you were a bit more defined/slim/etc. If you think this might be what he is doing, you will probably be able to get a good idea of what changes he thinks need to be made from the way he compares you. Not to say you need follow his suggestions, but you might not like hearing it because it is true to some extent.
hi i think when your boyfriend starts to compare you to any woman act like you could care less. now i don't mean to lash out or act jealous. i mean to change the conversation totally. if you join in the conversation about his friend, then the focus is more on her, not you my dear. also men sometimes make negative or positive comments about other women to see your response. so don't get mad just always act confident. ( also be aware of a man who would disrespect a woman he calls a friend)
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