My girl told me that I shouldn't talk to other girls anymore and that if I need to talk to a girl I should only talk to her and she wants me to tell all of my female friends that I have known 3 years before her that we can't talk anymore. What's up with that?
I agree with you and its always good to have another womans view on this. - 3 months ago
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Thank you for responding to this question. What my husband failed to say was that we are in fact married and I am insecure because he has made me that way. I have found nude photos of these people that he calls friends. I have found text messages that no girl friend or wife would want to find and he always seems to be hanging out with them when I'm not around. I also have a problem that every time they hang out it's a secret. So yes I'm an insecure control freak. You didn't get the whole story - 2 months ago
Thank you for your reply, I was thinking the same thing. - 3 months ago
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Thank you for responding to my husbands questions. It seems that he has left a few things out. First we are in fact married I'm not his girl I'm his wife which is something he leaves out a lot. I am insecure because I have found naked pics of the people he calls friends. Some of them are exes. I have found text messages that no one would want to find. He seems to always hang out with these people when I'm not around and then doesn't say a word about it later until I find out some other way. He has never asked - 2 months ago
If this is what she actually said then yes she is a huge control freak. Now the next step is to figure out why she feels the need to control you in this way. Number one guess? She's insecure. Try to come up with a compromise that will put her mind at ease and also allow you to remain in contact with your friends. P. S. Are any of your friends also your exes?
No ,they are just friends I've know for about three years before I started seeing her. - 3 months ago
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I really wish you had gotten the whole story. I'm not his girl I'm his wife. Yes there are some exes in there and also some people that have sent him nude pic's. The text messages that I have found have been way over the top if there just friends. He seems to only hang out with these people when I'm not around and I never get an invite. There are reasons that I'm insecure and he has made me that way. I haven't always been insecure. I wish you had got the whole story - 2 months ago
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I wish I had too. I'm sorry that he makes you feel insecure. However, there's no reason for you to put up with what he's doing. If he won't respect your feelings I'd say it's time to either seek professional help or, I'm sorry, consider making a serious move. If my guy receives naked pics from his "friends" and doesn't delete them or do anything to discourage them then he's not my guy anymore. Sorry. - 2 months ago
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Thanks. I know that this was kinda weird but I'm so tired of him making me out to be something I'm not. Even though I don't know you I feel like I have to defend myself. My arguement to him was if you don't really talk to them and you supposedly don't hang with them then what is the big deal letting them go so that I have some piece of mind considering all the facts. He stopped talking to them but it has been a issue for him every since. Sorry again for bringing you in this. - 2 months ago
Yes, she's definitely being unreasonable, and controlling. I would talk with her about it, and try to find out why she feels the need to treat you this way. This suspicion could cause real problems in your marriage.
Thank you for responding to my husbands questions. It seems that he has left a few things out. First we are in fact married I'm not his girl I'm his wife which is something he leaves out a lot. I am insecure because I have found naked pics of the people he calls friends. Some of them are exes. I have found text messages that no one would want to find. He seems to always hang out with these people when I'm not around and then doesn't say a word about it later until I find out some other way. He has never asked - 11 hours ago - 2 months ago
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What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
Well I'm not usually a fan of pick up lines, I'm more the kinda guy who would just go up and say hey and take it from there. If I had to choose one it would be something like, would it be wrong for a guy like me to start a casual conversation with a beautiful girl like you?
How do they typically respond?
It's hard to judge really, I'm quite a shy person soo I usually talk to girls online first before meeting them so there are a few things to talk about first. I've only ever used that line once and I got the girsl number afterwards soo I guess that's pretty good :)
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