Over the past year my boyfriend has only gone down on me like twice. I find it kinda weird because he also isn't into doing kinky things or talking about sexual things. Oral sex isn't one of my favorite things, so its not a big deal. I've just never been with a guy who doesn't like to do things. My previous boyfriend was always doing EVERYTHING!
Though the common belief is that all of us men are sex freaks. And though this is mostly true, it is not completely true. Some men just aren't moved to have a lot of sex, or for that matter a variety of sex. Missionary position seems enough to get them by until the next time. This is normally seen more so in women, but there are a few of those guys out there. Two reasons may be the cause of this. First, just doesn't have the sex drive. Second, just plain nervous or scared. There is a lot of pressure on men to perform these days, and that can be intimidating. Shows like Sex and the City, showing women sitting around joking about their inadequate lovers. My suggestion is this. Talk to him about it. Set up some romantic fantasy to get him worked up and walk him through what you want him to do. Make him your little slave for the night. Reward him when he does it good, or politely and in a fun way, teach him to fix what he is doing wrong. When he realizes how much pleasure he can bring to his woman. I'll bet his attitude changes. Good luck
Some people are not comfortable doing that its that simple but the two time he did it he was just desperately trying to please you or maybe because its not one of your favorite things he thinks you don't like it but sit down and talk to him and ask him its very simple way to find out
Yea, he's unusual cause a lot of guys LOVE eating out but like you said its not a big deal so why sweat it? I mean as long as he is doing everything else right, its cool. Hope he's not selfish cause that's a big turn off for me, especially sexually.
Your new boyfriend isn't like your previous boyfriend. Because he isn't your ex. Some guys just don't like doing it. Perhaps you should find out if he also wants you to give him oral sex. If he wants it and isn't getting any, maybe there's the reason he doesn't do it to you as much. If he does a lot of other things except oral sex, it's more likely that he just doesn't like eating it. Otherwise, next time he does it, tell him that you like it when he goes down on you. And see what his reaction is.
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