There is this guy. He is in all my classes mostly and I think he really likes me. BTW I'm in high school. Anyways this guy likes to talk to me and be nice to me. We joke around a lot and all my friends say we'd be a good couple. What can I do to make him ask me out? I mean, I wear perfume and all my friends can notice it. I don't look like a bum when I got school. Lol and my hair is always nice. Oh and I have another problem. I think this guy is intimidated because some other guys he hangs with like me. HELP!
I think you need to make it really clear to him that you like him. Try showing up somewhere where you know he'll be alone, and flirt with him, then maybe he'll ask you out. If he doesn't get the hint then, consider asking him out yourself.
He might like you a lot but he could just be afraid you'll reject him. Does he ask you to hang out or do something some time? Another thing though is that if his friend likes you, guys are careful about not go against their bros. If he really wants you he will go for it, because in all, it's instinct.
If you're in high school and this dude doesn't notice you or have the balls to ask you out, then don't waste your time. You should be with a guy who respects you, takes the initiative to care for you, and isn't afraid to be with you regardless what his friends think.
Wait for the guy who will honor you and respect you. It may take some time and you might get lonely at some point, but by all means wait. It'll keep your heart intact for the guy who truly is worth your time, and it'll prevent you from making mistakes that you'll regret - either emotionally or physically.
Thanks for the advise. I apreciate it. But it is also only my frist year in high school. Thanks a lot though. =] - 4 months ago
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You seem to have a situation and I have had it for the past 3 years with a guy but I dealt with it by making constant eye contact so he knows you are interested in that way and then start texting him and be friendly and see if he replies engage with good conversation and if you use msn start to talk to him a lot! thats what I did and things moved forward instead of being frustrated that nothing was being done between us! AND NOW THINGS ARE GOING STRONG! good luck!
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What is your favorite outfit for a night out with friends?
Something cute but not slutty, like a black mini skirt then a fancy party shirt. I love hipster jeans (I don't get muffin rolls =]) with either layerd camis and shirts or just one dressy top. If it's formal I like dresses but I'm really particular on the style for the occasion. I always make sure everything coordinates, including accessories =]. I like cute vests and belts too.
How do you style your hair and do your make-up?
I have short hair (shorter than in the pic now, mid-neck) which I usually leave down with a headband that matches the outfit as an accessory, not pushed back to keep my bangs out of my face. I usually do a little colored eyeliner only on the bottom lid (again, to match the outfit) and mascara. Lipgloss, but only clear. I don't like when girls have an insane amount of makeup on--it looks trashy.