Why do I like gay guys?

Here's why you like gay guys, because they won't hit on you, and they are always willing to go shopping with you, and they are just like one of the girls. Straight guys like me we hate shopping and going to the mall and when its time for you to get your hair or nails done, we only go because you want us to go, we don't go out with you when you have a girls night cause we could really care less about how hot Jonny Dep or Brad Pitt are, so why should we sit there while you and your girlfriends blab about all that, do you really want to hang out with the guys when we're watching tv and when we say dang that chick is so hot I wanna bang her, didn't think so.

I think it's because it would be THE ultimate accomplishment for a woman to turn a gay guy straight and have him totally sprung on you. You'd have an adorable, hot guy with hot fashion sense that likes to shop, open up to you, and be totally sensitive to your needs! What girl wouldn't want that? And you shouldn't feel weird hun it's totally normal!

Chica, you are most certainly NOT alone. I definitely have my moments when I wish I was a dude so I could get with the gay guys! I think it's a combination of things. There's definitely the "forbidden fruit" thing. And also, I just bond better with gay guys, probably because I know they're not just trying to get in my pants. Of course, then you get close to them, and you start to wish they WOULD just try and get into your pants, haha. But gay guys treat women so well, and that's another thing that makes them attractive.

Another thing about gay guys is that they really take care of their appearance a lot better than straight guys (as a general rule. There are, of course, exceptions). But unless they're bi, there's no point in trying to date them, because even if you do start dating one, ultimately they're attracted to guys and not girls. My only advice is just to try and be friends with them and just tell yourself that they're off-limits. It's hard, trust me, I know, I've been there. But it's really the best solution.

Ha!! Yes, I have the same problem! I love gay men, too. They are so much more caring and their listening skills are great and they're funny, outgoing, attractive, interesting... the list goes on and on! I actually did sort of date a gay man once (he was a "top" so it was easier for him to justify being with a woman)... and the point is that it ends in heartache. No matter what, they are never fully attracted to you, they get disinterested and you end up feeling insecure and upset when they leave you for another hot gay man. You'll probably always have a place in your heart for them, but one day you will get frustrated and the fantasy will drift away.

Lol. I 've seen and heard many of my friends tell me that they like gay guys, and unfortunately it's true, that gay guys are always the best looking or the best at helping out, but I think that's because they are more feminine and we as women are attracted to that because we can't fall in love with our girlfriends. =D Maybe you do think you can't have them, but maybe you could. You never know you could be the one to change them around? Hope it helped a little.
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