I've been dating this guy for like 2 months now and the farthest we've been doing is just making out. But I want to do more with him like hang job and fingering. We've talked about how far we would go before, but never really said we would just kinda hinted around at it. And I don't think anytime soon, unless we go to his house and actually be alone, is he going to finger me. I was wondering if the next time I see him this weekend should I make the first move while making out to give him a hand job? I'm afraid he might be surprised or be like what the hell? At first. Or should I give him kinda a heads up? Or do most guys usually like the confidence, take a hold type of girl in these situations?
I will tell you 100% unless the guy has some sort of weird thing about taking it slowly (and most don't), that your guy will LOVE IT if you go down his pants first. There's just something about it that drives us crazy. Me personally, when a girl does it, it almost takes my breath away, my stomach tenses up and my hips automatically push up and it feels amazing. I can guarantee your guy will love it.
You could tell him beforehand, but only a minute before. That way he can quickly get excited about it. Before you do it, remind him of how you guys might do that if you ever got the chance, and then tell him now is the time. Good luck and have fun.
There is no way that this guy would say what the hell if you gave him a hand job. I think if you slowly stroked him down there and did something like bite his ear while making out with him that he would get the idea. If you don't want to just grab a hold of him you could also put your hand between his pants and his boxers (Then he would really get the idea).
Also you can make it easier (if you want him to finger you) if you straddle him while making out. It will turn him on and it might make him a little more adventurous :) Good luck.
No guy is going to say no to a hand job! Just while your making out start doing it. He may be surprised but chances are. He ain't gonna stop you. Just go for it. Guys like confidence. Its sexy! Show your confident! And if he doesn't touch you. Guide him! Show him what you want! You will get it!
ive been dating my boyfriend for four months and I made him wait two before we even made out and I'm making him wit six before we go to second. we...
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