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He hasn't called since our second date, why?

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regina49 (Age:Over 45)     When: More than a year ago
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I had sex with a guy the second time I met him. He promised to call and has not called me. Is it bad to call him? I really liked him.

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johnsmith2116
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johnsmith2116 (Age:30 to 35)      When: 3 months ago
Yes you should call him. There is no other way to find out. Call him and find out if he is still interested. You need to know.
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Aedak
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Aedak (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
You can call him to see how he reacts, but if he hasn't called he either A) Isn't interested or B) Thinks you aren't interested.
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shanekokayne
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shanekokayne (Age:Under 18)      When: 5 months ago
Call him and ask him if he wants to go to the movies...because you have an "extra ticket"...and see what he says.
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That-Guy
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That-Guy (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
I'm with Purefury. If he liked you, you will know.

Like marisa said, the longer I had to wait. The better the illusion that the girl is not a skank (not calling you one but you get the picture).

Btw how long has it been since the awaited call?
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PureFury
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PureFury (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
If he hasn't called you then he probably used you. Think twice the next time you have sex with someone you don't know.
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luvbug
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luvbug (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Well, I think you may have had sex with him a little to soon. He may have lost respect for you and thought you were easy and may think you are not dating material. So he may not call back BUT be careful if he does its because he may think its a booty call. I'd call just to see what he thinks about your date.
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rachella288
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rachella288 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
Honestly, if he doesn't call that means he's not interested. Don't give in that easy to men!! Make them earn it. Flowers, dinner, clothes, lots of dates
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christie20
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christie20 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
You should really call him and see what's up.. I just take it as he used you and put you out like trash.. I hate it when guys do stuff like that too.. Just see if you can get a hold of him and see what's going on.
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samthan
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samthan (Age:25 to 29)      When: 5 months ago
He may have just used you. call him and see what happens.
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RedWine-and-a-J
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RedWine-and-a-J (Age:Under 18)      When: 5 months ago
Call him! You have the right to know what's going on, I mean you DID have sex with this guy.. But if he acts all stand-offish, play it off like you don't care, even if you do. Move on and show him what he let go. Maybe it'll hit him like, "Woah, she doesn't care? I wasn't good?" I mean, he's the dick if he blows you off and deserves whatever you throw at him.
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Marie099
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Marie099 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
You know what... most guys are jerks and totally use girls for sex while others have lots of respect and sex turns into a big part of the relationship. You should def call him and see what's going on.
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marisa
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marisa (Age:30 to 35)      When: More than a year ago
Yep, he used you. If you really like someone, don't sleep with them right away because there is plenty of time for a physical relationship. If you are just after sex, sure, have sex in the second date, second hour or whatever. But, this one is screwed up so learn your lesson and move on.
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