Do guys like using sex toys with their girlfriend?

Myself, I wouldn't want to. It can desensitize her, and make the man less satisfying to her.

Toys are a great way to spice up the sex life. So are foods and costumes and a whole lot of imagination. It is normally the people that only get missionary sex that will complain about boring sex lives later on. I hope everyone is constantly looking for fun ways to keep your partner happy and interested.

I think it's great to use sex toys with a girlfriend. It has nothing to do with insecurity to please the girl on my own, it's more like in addition to it. Plus it's hot to just watch a girl use a toy to pleasure herself. Why? Who knows. It just really is.

The problem comes when the girl starts wanting to use the toys on the guy. Like if she wants to use a vibrator on his dick. There is a stigma that if you allow yourself to enjoy that, it seems homosexual (since the sex toy is shaped like a penis). Obviously it's not true, but guys worry what their girls will think if they enjoy it. It definitely takes an open and trusting relationship for it to work that way.

I think a lot of men like this. It is a huge turn on for to see your women in pleasure. Sex toys are a good way bring novelty to a LTR. I have met some men who don't like the idea. But in my experience these were men that were insecure about their ability to please their woman with their own equipment. So the answer to your question in my opinion is yes.

Only one of my boyfriends we used toys but he actually brought up the whole idea. He liked seeing me pleasure myself

It depends on the guy; I've had two boyfriends who loved it. And I've had two that were very intimidated by any sort of sex toy. Needless to say the guys who were open and more experimental were much better lovers.

My boyfriend brought up this idea to me. It's one of his favorite things to do now, and I love it too.