My bf and I have a great relationship and we are very much in love, but......
On several occasions he says that the worst thing about her is that he loved her more than she loved him. I think that's very bad and a terrible thing to say to your current girlfriend. Do you agree?
He told me that his ex gf climaxed almost every time they had sex. I didn't sleep with anyone before I slept with my boyfriend and he only slept with one other person-- that woman. In the beginning I had difficulty coming through penetration ( but not through oral sex or masturbation), but I figured it out on my own and now I can come that way too. But when I found out that his gf came through sex alone, and I couldn't do it at the time, I felt very hurt, inadequate, and insecure.
In addition, when we first started having sex and I asked him how much sex he had with is ex, he inflated the number by a lot. Later in the relationship he admitted to having much less frequently. I believe it. Why did he do that?
Even though I feel like I improved with my love making techniques, I sometimes still think about his past and I worry that he liked it better than me. I worry that he loved her more and that maybe he liked her sex better than he liked mine.
She was unattractive, while I'm a very attractive and popular girl. From his description, the sex was only missionary and woman on top with a dabble in doggy. It seems like we've done a million things together that he hasn't done with that woman. And yet I still worry.
How can I feel better? How can I keep this from affecting my relationship? Is it normal to feel this way?
U know guys have various fantasies they work with while having sex...maybe talking bout ex gives him a high, a turn on. This does hurt the partner if she gets singled out every time. Try talking some sense into him.
There is an old saying in the world of computers - a guy among commoners, acts like a geek but when among geeks he acts like a commoner; in the whole introspect he never acts like a guy he is!
Do you think he still wants her or gets off thinking about them being together? - 2 months ago
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Since you mentioned you two share a gr8 sex life, it cannot be due to sex he is invariably being held back. Any thing else that bothers him, hope he is not one of those fellows who becomes timid when he is around females a little above his league (as even though you are together he feels over shadowed by your presence) - 2 months ago
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Actually it's funny that you mention that because his friends tell him that I'm out of his league and he laughs and agrees. I had a discussion with him and he said he feels intimidated sometimes. Do you think that could be the cause of him throwing his past at me like that? - 2 months ago
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More than throwing his past, he pays close interest to things that hurt you. A guys way of getting back - but then it makes me believe the guy is a nervous rack, making a good relation expendable.
If you both love each other, try getting that offensive line out. Maybe I have assumed too much above and can be wrong. Sit and chat bout his sexual communique with him. - 2 months ago
Really he doesn't need to be comparing you to his past sex life. Its irrelevant or his ex in general. That's why we move on. There is nothing wrong about talking about your past only if the two of you are comfortable. You are a beginner and it takes time to get experienced into sex and he should be patient with that. Don't ever put yourself down or feel like you are inadequate. If he is being selfish wanting you to be just like her well your not so why be with someone like that. He needs to appreciate what he has got right in front of him.
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What is your favorite outfit for a night out with friends?
Chip and Pepper jeans with a tight, white, low-cut shirt and black, high-heeled boots. I wear a silver necklace with a circle made of diamonds at the end and my diamond earrings.
How do you style your hair and do your make-up?
It takes like an hour to do my hair and makeup! First I blow dry my hair. Then I use foundation on my face. Then I straighten my hair with a straightener (ceramic so it doesn't hurt my hair). Next comes blush, eye liner, eye shadow, mascara. Then I curl the pieces of my hair to frame my face. Last comes lipstick and perfume!
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