Why is it so hard for guys to express themselves?

It's hard for us to express ourselves as men because we are not wired that way upstairs. I know that this answer is probably a reifacative one, but who cares.

Socially, men don't express our emotions. And if you poke at us too much with wanting emotions you'll probably get a few emotions you didn't want. Like irritability or frustration. Just leave him alone. Why don't you look at yourself and ask if maybe you are insecure. If you want to know how a man feels, look at his actions. Does he take care of you and your child together. If he honest, faithful, loyal? If you answered yes to all 3 then he probably loves you. Most of us men are not socially conditioned to express excessive emotion. That's what makes women so great. You ladies are awesome because you can do it so freely. I respect and admire women for that characteristic they possess. -j