Concerned about being a virgin?

Ok first off she can not turn back time. As much as you would love her to be a virgin - it is not going to happen. Doesn't mean she is a skank or anything. You need to recognize yourself is this a jealousy issue or an insecurity issue. If its jealousy then YOU need to deal with YOUR problems, as she can't change her past. If its insecurity because you are a virgin and not sure if you are going to do it right. Well As long as you show her love and affection and care then it won't matter. It takes us years to perfect it. Honestly. Good love making doesn't develop over night. :) Just treat her well. Please her - And love her. You do that and she won't think of her past. But don't make her feel guilty about things she cannot change.

There is nothing you can do it either accept it or leave her. How many guys have she been with is it just one guy is a bunch

U could dwell on the fact that your girlfriend is a virgin , but why would you?? I understand that it bothers you .. but have you ever asked yourself just why you feel that way ?? Ok so your a virgin and she's not I can only assume you have known this from the very beginning and if that's the case this is not very fair to her or you. It shouldn't matter what she did before you it should only matter what she does right now ... has she slept with someone else ?? Does she make you feel less then a person because you choose to remain a virgin ?? If so she has a problem .. If not you do. If she says its no big deal nine out of ten she means what she says ... let it be.

Even if you tell her that it bothers you and that you worry about it, she really can't go back and get her virginity. It one of those things that you just have to learn to accept and move on from. If it bothers you that much, it would probably be best that you find a girl who is in the same experience level as you but trust me. Once you've got the hang of it. You will probably be more experienced then your girlfriend and since she already knows, she'll probably be expecting you to screw up a couple times before you get it right. If it helps watch some videos or ask your guy friends who are experienced to give you some tips!

Assuming that the thing that bothers you is the fact that she's not a virgin (though you are), here's the deal:

It would be nice, I suppose, if every girl knew exactly who her Mr. Right was, and saved themselves for him. However, in truth, at some point, the vast majority of folks out there have either thought that the one they were with was 'The One', given in to peer pressure or curiosity, or let a bit too much alcohol make the call for them.

She's the same person, whether a virgin or not, and how you feel toward her should be driven by who she is. If it significantly bothers you, the two of you should talk about it. (In a calm, non-accusatory way; it is not something that she can change, and it may be the case that she wishes she had waited. )

I guess she understand that naturally but she'd rather say there's nothing to worry about:)

I had the same problem with my present girlfriend. but you just have to accept it. It obviously doesn't bother her that you are a virgin. So she obviously likes you for who you are, that's something you don't have to worry about. but if it comes down to you two having sex, or anything like that, just take your time with it all.
My girlfriend are doing amazing.
and I think the only reason for that is that I accepted that I couldnt change that and that she can't change any of iteither.