For many years I've only asked girls out once. I figure if they're interested, they'll make time for a date. I don't want to be a pest, and I'm worried that girls who say "no" but mean "yes" might play additional head games later.
So what's the word, girls? Ask you out more than once, or not? And why? Should a guy "work for it" to get a date, or is it irritating to ask you out more than once?
Are there any clues that "no"always means "no" in some cases, but in other cases, "no" might become a "yes" if I ask for a date a second time?
No mean no, unless she has a boyfriend at the time. I couldn't stand to be ask every week or what not, it would tick me off. I had a guy do this once to me, where he asked me all the time and I just gave in and said yes, and I wasn't happy at all. So just give it awhile and try again.
LOL, It's funny to ask a question like that for this reason. I was in high school and this one guy asked me out every weekend without fail and I was interested but I was in a relationship I'm a faithful kinda girl, anyways after my boyfriend and I broke up he was the first person I dated afterwards and in a way it's flattering but it was cute the way he asked not creepy so be careful of that lol it's a fine line.
Nah some girls run game, to see if you only after one thing, and how bad you want it. You can't get mad tho when they say no or act like it phased you because when you do that they know. And when you act like it don't fade you they they think y and get insecure. No means they don't know enough trust me. Yeah girls like to see us work that shows that we really like them and it makes them feel like they have the upper hand. They like to be chased if they like you, it fulfills their insecurities about guys. Its like at the club you introduce your self and then you go for the close, wanna dance. They say I got a bf, I say me to to get them laugh then say come on and they usually go with me. You get what I'm sayin? Good? You just gotta be tactful and step your game up.
Very interesting. Its not that we like to make you think we have the upper hand, it more so show us your willing to work for what you want. If we play hard to get- its not always a game. We want to show you were not some easy gal you can just pick up at your convenience. If your serious about wanting to date us you will try. AND. No does not mean. We don't know. Sometimes no means no. - 2 months ago
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That gives ya the upper hand because we gotta prove our self, now we are the one working for it while you just looking cute. Lol. Yeah no means no, when its said the right way. But I've had people tell me no really strong but still worked things out. It all depends on your tactics and charisma. - 2 months ago
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