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Attraction! Is it superficial?

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Guy4Girls (Age:36 to 45)     When: 2 months ago
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For the girls: If you could pick one trait, what do you find most attractive in a man?

For the guys: If you could pick one trait, what do you find most attractive in a woman?

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animaholicx
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animaholicx (Age:Under 18)      When: 2 months ago
I would pick how sweet they are. Like how much of a gentleman, care for you kind of guy
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SEXY-GURL
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SEXY-GURL (Age:Under 18)      When: 2 months ago
THE EYES
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whittasia
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whittasia (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
Their personality
because even if their not the hottest guy they can still make me laugh and have a good time
and looks tends to fade after awhile
when a person has a good personality they are gorgeous because it's not the outside that you are looking it's the inside
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LessthanLisa
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LessthanLisa (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
For the initial attraction, I'm attracted to boys who are slightly skinny, taller than me with dark hair and dark eyes.

But all that's meaningless unless they can think for themselves and have some original ideas. My boyfriend wasn't quite I was looking for physically when I met him, (though he was/is gorgeous) but he had this way of thinking that I have never seen before - he's a deep thinker, I love and hate it about him.

I love the guys that ask questions about the world, question how things are, you know.
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Question Asker Sorry, only one answer please. Just kidding. Thanks for the response. - 2 months ago

Mousey
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Mousey (Age:30 to 35)      When: 2 months ago
To pick only one is hard as they come hand in hand. But over the years I have realized Looks aren't that important. However hygiene is. But if I had to pick one. A sincere personality ( with good hygiene ) Sorry had to say 2.
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jbone79
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jbone79 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
Humility, I hate nothing more than a woman who is arrogant. I don't care how hot they think they are, or how big they think their ego can get because they have this perception that they are god's gift to the world. For me a person who is down to earth and not a f***ing jerk is the best. Chicks like those have started wars between nations. That's still the same today in my book. - j
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lonlehube
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lonlehube (Age:36 to 45)      When: 2 months ago
The one trait that I find the most attractive in a woman is their eyes. . Yes this is superficial. I have known women with beautiful eyes but could not carry on a conversation, and they quickly became less attractive. I like someone I can talk to
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soxfan94
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soxfan94 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
Initial attraction is almost always superficial. It almost always has to be. How often do you get to know someone's personality before you see their appearance?

That being said, the most attractive trait in a woman initially are her facial features, but once you get to know her, the most attractive is a great sense of humor
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Superstrength79 I agree. I assumed the question only meant physical attraction, but in the end personality wins it for me as well. - 2 months ago
Question Asker There's been many times that I've gotten acquainted with someone, then it led into a very close friendship, and then it led to more. By no means did I have any intentions of pursuing them, but their personality made it happen. - 2 months ago

Superstrength79
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Superstrength79 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
A pretty face is the most attractive thing to me.
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