Guys: why does it seem that guys like Sluts more than Modest women?

Well I would have to say not all guys are like that, there are some out there looking for a respectful lady with better morals in life, but as I can see you are under 18 so you must be in high school, high school is full of guys thinking of only one thing only, I have met some of my friends and to this very day are happily married since high school, if they can't respect you first and just have fun doing your everyday activities then they are not worth your time, don't lose hope they are out there

Just a question: What do you define as a slut? Be more specific on this one. As an older man, I like women with dating and sex experience as compared to a "pure and innocent" rookie. Yet, a slut isn't quite what I would look for unless I on a pure booty call. To some, any woman who's had ANY sex before marriage is slutty. To others slut is more of an image(looks like a street whore) than what their sexual activity may be.

It's not that guys like sluts more than modest women....it's just that guys have better chance of getting laid with a slut. Immediate gratification....it's what the "me" generation is all about.

Well when a guy goes on lets say a f*** spree, usually is caused because a girl breaking his heart, and their using sex with other people to make him feel better, and more attractive.

Well you are going after the wrong guys those guys aren't worth it. Me personally I don't like sluts that's such a turn off. Usually we are attracted to things that are exciting and mysterious, that guy is attracted to a slut maby he a freak and like freaky thing. Maby there is a inner freak in you crying to get out. It could be a number of things. But the problem here is your attracted to the wrong guys I think. You seem like a nice girl and deserve better than a confused guy that will hurt you. Good?

Sluts are usually very conscious of their looks (hot), and they're slutty. That's all. That just shows that they are looking for sex. It's not that they LIKE sluts, they really don't - they just want one thing. If they were interested in a relationship they would bypass the slut and go for the classy girl.

I have a friend that gets around a lot. Even though she isn't hot, she is in fact on the ''big'' side. And yet she always has all kinds of guys flirting with her. I always wondered why they kept coming up to her instead of me, and I asked around. Most of my guy friends told me that they are assured to get some action if they talk to her and that was the reason. But when they are interested in more than sexual things. They will deff go for the modest woman.

Not all guys go for sluts, quite the opposite. Only when they do, its for sex and nothing more. These guys might not have much/no sexual experience so they might go for girls who will give it up for them. You'll find as you get older that guys will go for nice girls such as yourself. Always respect and be true to yourself. Good luck!