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Women: Do you know how to ejaculate?

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dakadan (Age:36 to 45)     When: 2 months ago
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Female ejaculation is finally beginning to be embraced by the medical profession as something that is possible. It used to be believed that only 10% of women could do this, but I think this is beginning to change. I know I have never met a woman that I couldn't bring to ejaculate (and I'm not talking about a fluid that is measured in teaspoons, but cups).

Has anyone ever taught you how to do it? Did you even know you could do it?

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)      When: 27 days ago
I have no idea how to but would love to be able to. How can I do this?

and I do have a boyfriend who could help me with this.
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Question Asker Maybe I'll write an article about is some day. In the mean time if you are relaxed, aroused, and your g-spot are stimulated then you can ejaculate. It may feel like you have to pee. Just relax and put some towels down. If you pee right before you have sex then you know you are ejaculating when having sex. It is difficult to learn in many cases from text. I had to learn from a daka/dakini pair (sexual healers and educators). Since that time I have helped 40-50 women to be able to ejaculate. - 27 days ago

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tolovewithoutyou (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
I'm sure I probably could if I tried, I just don't know what it would add to sex other than soaking the bedsheets, I mean does it intensify orgasm? I wouldn't want to get him wet, and I would be paranoid about it smelling.
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Question Asker I have never experienced a bad odor. If he is educated enough to know that it isn't urine then he will probably love it. Most men I do love to get soaked in it. It is a very high energy fluid and you will probably see an increase in his energy with it.

Yes, it can soak the sheets, which is why we use towels.

Finally, I know women who have the most intense and satisfying orgasms when they ejaculate. Nothing can stop the screaming. Try it and see or don't, but you might be missing out. - A month ago

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Miss-October (Age:25 to 29)      When: A month ago
I know how to bring myself to orgasm quickly but, no, I don't know what muscles to use to ejaculate.
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RoCkStAR1985 (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
It's funny since there has been gay guys who have asked me that question. But I could say is that we do get wet before and during the act, but when I actually get to the orgasm, I don't ejaculate as guys do so I thought that was normal. Funny huh?
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
Ok I have to say when I do have sex or foreplay or whatever I do but I do feel like its pee so I try hold it back but when I do let go it feels great but it smells like pee what's wrong?
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Question Asker If you go to the bathroom right before pleasuring yourself then it is not pee because you just evacuated your bladder. There are traces of urine within female ejaculation, but that is only because it uses the same canal just the same way that a mans ejaculate contains urine since it too uses the same urethral canal.

I would venture to guess that it is more psychological that it smells like urine. If it feels really great and it is clear your then it sounds like you are doing it right to me. - A month ago

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lizaveta (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
I tend to ejaculate a lot during sex. Definitely more than teaspoons. But cups - are you serious? The sheets are all soaked as it is!
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Question Asker Yeah, I've hear of a women who collected almost a quart. I've also seen women that have just a little drizzle all the way to at least a cup (soaked through the towels and all). - A month ago

 
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
apparently i do. read the question "did i just female ejaculate or just peed myself? "
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Question Asker See my comment above. Try the experiment of peeing right before being pleasured to the point of ejaculation. Collect some and look at it. It is one of the most energetic fluids produced! You can also ejaculate into the toilet (squatting is one way to help release the fluid). - A month ago

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Redhrgrl (Age:30 to 35)      When: 2 months ago
I've done it, every time I come I have a little gush of fluid. Not cups, but certainly noticeable amounts. The fluid is slightly viscous and pleasantly fragrant. I'm not sure if there's a "how to" associated with it, but for me it started to happen around the same time I was finally comfortable enough during sex to concentrate on how I was feeling, as well as on how my mate was feeling (as opposed to just worrying about how I looked/ felt/ tasted to him. )

So I was in my very early twenties, then. Part of the reason I learned to relax that way was that the first time it happened, my mate recognized it for what it was, and was even more turned on by it. I think if he were repulsed by it, or had mistaken it for urine (which some uneducated men have done) I would've clamped right up again, and maybe not been the same? Who knows.

All I know is it helps to warn your mate that this is something that you're capable of, so there are no surprises.

Anyway I'm so grateful it was with him. And I think all women can do it; otherwise it would be like saying only some men can ejaculate. We all have pretty much the same piping down there.
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springdragonfly (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
I was really under the impression most women cannot actually do this. How many women who could do this have you been with?

To be honest, even if it was possible to learn, I think I'd rather not.
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Question Asker Actually, most women can do this. Only recently has medical science even begun to look at it. The one fear I have in explaining to people how to do it is that it becomes a "party trick" instead of the extremely pleasurable event that it can become. - A month ago

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LessthanLisa (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
I never have, but I've never wanted to learn how to do so either.
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Question Asker I'm curious. Why not? - A month ago
Answerer It just seems a bit gross to me.. my boyfriend agrees, he finds it disgusting.. I wouldn't care to do it, and if I could do it, I'd be a bit self conscious about it. - A month ago
Question Asker The self-conscious bit is why a lot of women have problems with it. It is a natural part of the sexuality of a women. Historically, it was believed to be a necessity for fertilization and as a result happened all the time. As a result of men finding out that it wasn't necessary it was then dropped.

I'm curious, do you think male ejaculation is disgusting? (please don't read this as I'm judging you. I'm just curious as to your thought processes on it. ) - A month ago
Answerer Surprisingly no, not at all. - A month ago
Question Asker Why do you think one form of ejaculate disgusting and the other is not? Do you think it is because it is more commonly accepted by our culture?

Thanks for having a dialog about this with me. - A month ago
Answerer It just doesn't seem to be for me.. if any other women wants to do it, that's fine, and I don't find that disgusting at all... just me? I don't know... it would be very odd to me... I enjoy things as they are. :) - A month ago
Question Asker Okay. Thanks for your comments. - A month ago

 
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
I don't know how, but I wish I did. I didn't know that it was something that you could be taught to do, and I'm not sure if I can.
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Question Asker Do a google search for Debra Sundahl. She is the queen of female ejaculation and has a series of books and videos. Or go and see a professional daka or dakini. Most of them can work with you on it. - A month ago
 

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disfabioguise (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
If they aren't aware of it then they should check out this website

Http://www. Selfgrowth. Com/articles/Lawless1. Html
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Question Asker What a great site! You can also go to deborasundahl. Com. She is the queen of female ejaculation. - 2 months ago
 
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