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Is it bad to ask a girl out you don't know very well?

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GiJoe (Age:18 to 24)     When: 4 months ago
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Is it bad to ask a girl out before you know her well. Like should you become friends with her first then ask her out. Around what time frame would you say.

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AshleyL (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
I've been on lots of dates with guys that I didn't know much about or they weren't my friends first. That's the whole point of dating someone, to get to know them.

I say go for it. Since you don't really know her you have nothing to lose. Take a shot and see if she wants to get to know you. That's the fun part about dating.
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bluelife
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bluelife (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
I am having the same problem with a guy. My question is: why hasn't he asked me out. So, since I am experiencing your issue as the female (not being asked out just yet), I would suggest you continue to get to know her. Get her telephone number if you don't already have it. In your conversations, ask her about hobbies and interests, particularly on the weekends. Time frame? I would give it about 1-2 months of talking and getting to know one another on the phone. Then ask her out. Again, I am answering you based upon my feelings regarding my "guy friend". I hope everything goes well!
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glowgirl3
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glowgirl3 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
It's perfectly fine to ask her out now! She might be wondering when you're going to anyway. Your only asking her out on a date. Good luck! :-)
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boysrdumb12
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boysrdumb12 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
I definitely think its an okay to ask her out now. Maybe you should ask her out on one date to get to know each other. Then if you both hit it off then go on a couple more dates chill with each other then ask her to be your girlfriend. But first just date a couple times to get to know each other! Good luck :-]]
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wildd (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Personally, Its a way better idea to know a girl before you can ask her out. It just builds up the comfort zone for you and the girl. Also it won't be creepy.

If a guy I didn't know asked me out randomly. I'll judge and be very bias. Into sayin' that he wants to go out with me for other reasons. You know?

So its a good idea to just at least make sure the girl knows who you are before you can ask her out.
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Question Asker Very true but I kind of showed her I'm interested in her as a person in the few days I have really began to talk to her. Thanks is it ok to ask her to prom as friends even if I don't know her well. - 4 months ago
Answerer I think you should and yea its okay because like you said you have really began to talk to her and whatnot so yea go for it! - 4 months ago
 

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jhman2002
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jhman2002 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
One problem with girls is that if you make friends with them, and then you ask them out they will say no because they just can't see you more than a friend. So don't ask them out immediately but after hanging out a few times is ok to ask.
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tex151
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tex151 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
Well depends you want a friend or a girlfriend? If you want a friend get to know her if you want a girlfriend, then ask her out to dinner, movie something like that, after you get her number.
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soxfan94
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soxfan94 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
This gets back to the bigger question: what does it mean to "ask a girl out"? Some people think that it means that you're in a relationship. In my opinion, though, asking her out refers to a date such as having dinner or something.

If you're talking about going on a date, you don't need to know her as a friend at all really...that's what the date is for: to get to know her better.

If you mean entering into a relationship, it's best to develop your interactions for a while first, and then when you both feel comfortable, go for it.
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