Update: Okay in a break up kind of way your guy breaks up with you for no reason and when you try to get him back he starts saying that is all your fault that y'all broke up because this because that and blah when the truth is that he was the one who did wrong?
2 months ago
I think at your age, guys don't want to be blamed for anything. They really think that it is your fault they broke up with you. "Because you were late for our dinner date, I got to talking to this girl and we went out. " Its your fault when he should not have been talking to this girl and go out with her.
We probably need a little more clarification on this one to even know what you are asking here. But if I am speaking off of my gut, I would have to say we do the same things to guys. Women can make guys feel just as guilty and they make us feel. So elaborate a little more so people can give you better advice.
Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I usually ask the girl where she wants to go and try to create something based on that. Typical stuff, dinner, maybe a movie, bowling. Ideally I would give her a short kiss goodnight if things went well but that's the most. I wouldn't push for too much more.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
I would tell her about my job and a little bit about my family to give her an idea of my background. I would hope she would think I am a genuine and caring person.