I am going out of town with my boyfriend for the first time in a couple of weeks. We are going to the beach with another couple. We will each have separate bedrooms. I was wondering if I should bring some lingerie. I have never worn lingerie before, but I thought since we were on vacation - maybe. Guys do you care about lingerie? Or would you rather just get us naked? We've had sex but we have never spent the night together. I usually sleep nude. Should I bring a nightie to sleep in or just shorts and a t-shirt? What do you think?
Why bring shorts and a shirt? Nude for a first time together is plenty fun enough. If either of you are already bored with each other's body, find someone else to go on vacation with because this will never last. I love lingerie. I especially love lingerie under clothes. I love taking off the clothes and finding the surprise of garters and hot undies/bra/bustier underneath. Taking lingerie off (even putting it on too!) is very fun, but nude is just as exciting if you are with the right person - especially if it the first time you will go to bed and wake up together. Besides, it just gets taken off eventually and thrown on the floor and forgotten. (I secret it away and stash if for a whiff later) When you wake up in the morning, it is much easier to caress and lick and suck the skin of a totally nude person to wake them up than to have to maneuver around a bunched up nightie or teddy.
Besides, you will be much more comfortable since you already sleep nude, and comfort (your's) is key to a good nights sleep after a night of passion. It's bad manners to fall asleep during the morning after session. :)
I think you should probably dress up not to just instantly take off your clothes but to get in bed with him this will most likely get him in the mood. This Will make him feel free to do what you set the mood to be. I probably wouldn't care about lingerie if a girl planned to have sex with me, this would probably be a waist of time to you and him if it's planned.
Lingerie is incredible. Don't get me wrong, there is a lot to be said for a beautiful woman in the nude. But think of it like Christmas morning. There is just something fun about unwrapping a great present. Lingerie adds some excitement and turn on to a guy, and it makes him a little anxious and curious to get at what is underneath. I encourage you to take the lingerie, but also be playful with it. Make him work a little before he gets to take it off. I'm certain you will both enjoy the fun.
What does he want? Communicate girl. There are times where my man wants it and doesn't. Someone below answered that it makes her feel sexy. This is true- and the foreplay can be very fun while working around it and working it off! Be creative and have fun when asking him! Throw it on the floor and say do you like how this looks? It will probably be there most of the night anyway- he, he. Have a great weekend!
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