So you are giving your man head. When he is getting to the point do you have to swallow or can you take your mouth off and finish it with your hand? The whole thought of having to swallow just gags me? Or do I just need to stop gagging?
If I were you'd I'd definitely not swallow! Cum wasn't made for swallowing plus you can get STD's. It was made for giving babies. If you MUST give head, then make sure to get it out of your mouth before he starts oozing precum. Finish him off by hand and have him cum in a tissue. Squirting on your face or boobies sounds gross to me and I don't see how any girl can like that. Because she's being used. If a guy tells you, like omg swallow it cause most girls do. That's bullshit. That's treating a girl like crap to expect her to swallow his cum. He's definitely not long-lasting boyfriend material because getting a blowjob is more important to him than you are. To him it's not much more than just getting his dick sucked by a girl and after he cums he thinks less of her.
Well, look at it this way, if your guy was licking and sucking on your clit and just before you are about to cum he stops and starts rubbing it with his fingers, is it ok with you?
Yes, the cum in your mouth is a big difference but you don't have to swallow.
Everyone is different. What works for one person doesn't mean its going to work for another. Some girls are great at swallowing and others just can't do it. There's no shame in that, though. If you really want your guy to have a great finish, what are some other ways you can keep it exciting instead of swallowing? Let him shoot off on your chest, or maybe your face. Watch a few nasty vids and get some ideas. You can still be nasty without doing things you don't want to do. Have fun, but don't make yourself do what you don't want to.
It takes awhile to get used to, but it is better for the guy if you swallow. But if you're not comfortable with it and it really makes you feel sick, then don't do it. If the guy has a big problem with it, he's probably a jerk. A good guy will understand if you just don't feel like you can do it. He may still want you to, but he won't get upset.
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