Its been almost 2 weeks that I haven't heard from a guy I been dating for a month. Everything was going perfect until one day he just disappeared, ignore my phone calls and just totally stopped responding. He even moved me from number one on myspace and deleted one of my pic comments to him 2 weeks ago. We have slept together few times. I was a little hurt when all this happened but sometimes it hits me and I just don't understand how much I believed that everything was peachy and just gone like it nothing. I liked him a lot.
However, I really do want to know why he just left me like that and also know that if I call him on my cell, he won't pick up but if I use another number, he will. Then I can finally get him on the phone and express how he hurt me. What do you think? Is it worth it to find out and call him? I mean I know there are plenty of fish in the sea but he was different and what I wanted after being with so many B. S. Guys. Should I call him for my own closure?
Really? Can you tell me y you say that? - 2 months ago
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You should know the truth about what happened. Without that, you got nothing. - 2 months ago
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(Age:30 to 35)
When: 2 months ago
I would not give him the satisfaction, screw him, he doesn't pick up your calls and you want to call? You've only invested a month of your time, I would not invest anymore, I know you thought he was different etc etc but now you know he's not! Why let him know your hurting? So he can gloat? If he cared about how you felt he would be calling you up! Not to be mean, but what kind of closure do you need after a month? It sucks I know, but just move on forget about him and don't call, see if he ever calls you. Why do you want to know why he left you, will it matter? Will it make him get back with you? Sounds like to me, he had his fun with you and now he's moving on, I mean you only dated for a month and you were sleeping together already? Not to judge I mean hell we've all done it, but maybe that was all he was after in the first place? Like I said don't give him the satisfaction of a call, just move on, act like you could care less, I think you'll get more of a response this way anyhow, if that's what you looking for, calling him up and asking him direct will only get you a line of crap from him, since he already has acted immaturely, he will tell you whatever he can to get off the phone with you and come out looking like the nice guy, don't fall for it, don't call! Good Luck!
Call him but you said yourself he's not responding to your calls anyway. But for your own sake and to get the closure you need, try and call him see if he answers.
Now from my own experience, when my ex started acting exactly like this (moved me from his #1 on myspace, stopped calling me as much, etc) the reason was. Tada! He was cheating on me. So be prepared for him most likely having someone else in his life.
But how did you find out? Did you ask him or did you hear it from someone? Its like as if they liked the other person more and dumped us. But they are gonna do the same thing to the next person. So its good that they are gone. They're selfish and no good. I may not call him because its obvious he just don't want me no more. - 2 months ago
Answerer
I flat out asked him. I told him that he was acting really weird to me and I used the myspace thing as an example and pointed out he had some new girl in my place. At first he tried to deny it but he's a TERRIBLE liar and just got all tangled up in his own lies, couldn't fix it to make sense and had to admit that he was messing around with that girl. 2 days later they were an official couple. Nice huh? You are right when you say we don't need guys like that in our lives. They WILL do it again. - 2 months ago
Question Asker
Yea, girl. Its messed up but its life. We got to move on. I'm just so tired of being disappointed, decieved. I just want a guy who REALLY wants to be with me but no matter what, I end up with the same type of men. So, I got to take a break from dating cause I'm never happy with the results - 2 months ago
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I pick the lady up and we go out to dinner. Some place semi-quiet so we can talk but not too quiet I don't want it to seem overly romantic. Depending on the time of year we might do something outdoors like mini-golf or a football game, otherwise go to something indoors where it's warm. Not a movie, because I want to get to know her. I take her home and walk her to the door. The End.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
My name, Hobbies, Musical Tastes, a little about my family and what a I do for a living and hopefully have a good indication of what my personality is like.
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When: 2 months ago
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