The girls I have seen in bars seem really nice and sweet, that is until they start drinking. If they can't handle their liquor on one night out, what makes anyone think they could be responsible enough to be in a successful relationship? A lot of women are completely against meeting a man in a bar (or finding relationship material in a bar, I should say) so why should the answer change when the sex is different? I think you're more likely to find relationship material in a setting where alcohol isn't involved.
My parents met in a bar and have been married for over 30 years now. She was 18 and he was 22. Back then, the drinking age was 18 of course. :-)
My second example is that about five years ago my roommate and I drove to Miami for spring break. One night while out drinking she met a guy and went back to his hotel despite my best attempts to stop her. Last year I went to their wedding.
So yes, you can meet the right person in a bar, but I don't think it happens too often. :-)
I think you can. Some girls go to bars just to be with friends and have a good time, in my case when I go I don't go to meet or hook up wit guys its not my thing, but if he seems like a nice guy its worth a shit, so I think its the same thing for a guy trying to meet a girl for a relationship
I think you can. Most of the girls in the bar are just regular girls going out for a fun time. Not all of them go out 3 times a week and drink their face off. The bar has the connotation of just being a pickup/hookup establishment, which it is, so pickup someone you had fun with, then hang out another time in a non-bar environment. I've made some really good guy friends doing this that have boyfriend potential. Nothing has turned in to anything more than a FWB because that's all I want right now. To me it seems harder to find boyfriend material in the bars because it looks like they're always looking for sex more than girls. It's all in how you analyze the girls you see, we're all just potential-girlfriends in disguise having a really good time.
It can definitely work! My parents meet at a bar and have been married for twenty six years. I can't even remember a time when they didn't seem in love. Even when they're mad at each other.
But from what I've seen with my friends a such its a really rare thing. I think its because people act differently when they have been drinking or just all hyped up in general. I think it very possible though to find a person there that you like to spend time with. Hey they already have one of your interest in common! Drinking!
From my experience the chances are very slim if ever possible, rather at a more formal occasion, through family or good friends or a social gathering or feast than at a loud music pumping dark room full of strangers.
Location is meaningless. What matters is if you both click. Would you feel any different about a woman you met at a bar if you met her instead at a library? What if she was going out with her friends to the bar that very same night? My point is it doesn't matter where you two meet.
Yes, there are very few good girls that go to a bar. It might be their first time or just to socialize with their friends. They are very scarce. And yes again if a girl you like is the ones who party a lot. You know what that says about them right? For me I don't like it. Its not that they are whores but there's just something wrong with partying like that for me. If you like the outgoing and partying type then yah your good over there. I won't suggest it though
What do you think going to a bar does say about a girl then? - 13 days ago
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Thats cool but where els can you go? I'm always out at like borders and the library and record joints. They just seem scares to me anywhere you go. - 12 days ago
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I view them as being spenders and too outgoing, how bout if I had them for a girlfriend. I know that most of them would still go without me and dance around with a couple of guys. You get what I mean? I just don't like that kind of girls as my girlfriend. I also view them as being sort of rebellious, maybe even do things behind my back and don't tell me about it. And of course most of them just party instead of studying. It really affects your grades, if you know what I mean. - 12 days ago
Haha. Not everyone is still attending school. So you should not assume that. You are just judging them. So if I hang out with bad people, I am a bad person. If I point a knife at someone, I am going to kill them? Obviously not. There could be people there, like the questioner who just wants to go to a place to meet people. - 12 days ago
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True, but you should assume everything. That's a different topic your talking about. Its hard to have a hang over at work also because they tend to sleep a whole lot later. It won't seem like it but I'm sure it decreases their efficiency. Girls there might have all the time in the world too because they might have stopped school and maybe flip burgers and party at night. You know what I mean. There's just a lot of variables. - 12 days ago
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If you hang out with bad people there's a very big chance that you are bad too. If your good why would you even hang out with the people you know who do crimes. If your saying that your still good then there's a very big chance that you'd leave them soon or maybe influence you on the things that they do. You can't say that won't happen because you hang out with them. People who know your bad friend would also portray you as one of them simply by just hanging around with them. - 12 days ago
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Pointing a knife?u won't necessarily kill them...u guys might be joking around so why'd you kill them but then if your not in good terms and you point a knife at him he could sue you, have you ever heard of attempted murder? well that's one of them kido, people also may accidentally push you and you might be just in the right position to stab them. seems ridiculous but it happens.why would you even point a knife at a person. you should point sharp objects down when your walking around with those - 12 days ago
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You can tell a party person from a responsible person. I can't deal with that, that's not what I'm looking for. - 11 days ago
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Wait what? Ask me your question and I'll try to give my opinion - 11 days ago
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No I was commenting on the party collage girl answer about not paying attention to grades or work. That's not what I'm looking for,but that's rare anyway for me to find. - 10 days ago
This all depends on what you're looking for. It's mind boggling to say that there are NO girls at bars who would make a good girlfriend. It depends what you're looking for. If you're looking for a teetotaling intelligentsia type, then odds aren't very good for meeting her at a bar. If you're looking solely for a girl who will be wild and party every night, then any of the girls at the bar have a good shot. Lastly, if you're looking for a girl who knows how to have a good time, but can still be reasonable and smart and funny, there's some of those at the bar too. Where else would the "girlfriend material" girls go to drink? They've got to go to the bars just like the rest of us, haha.
Yay I agree! You can't say there are NO girlfriend potential ladies at bars because my momma is a bartender, and my best friends mom also owns a bar! xD not the answer you were looking for haha xD - 12 days ago
Can I just ask what are you like around gals? Cos you make it sound like we are a different species. Don't you think that you are trying too hard to look for a gal and that maybe there is someone obviously close by? And that just let your hair down and relax do sth you enjoy and you could potentially met someone through a hobby. When I go out I don't body grind the first guy that I see not all gals are open and some are its just how it is. Just stop searching and it will come naturally - 17 hours ago
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Nicki922002 - Are you asking me, or the person who wrote the question? I was trying to answer his question, I wasn't explaining where I meet girls. To be honest, I've never met someone at a bar. And as best I can remember, I've never even tried. If the question said "where is the best place to meet a girlfriend" I wouldn't have said a bar, that's for sure. But he asked if there's ever girlfriend material at the bar, and since I go to the bar with friends who are girlfriend material, I was confirming that yes there is. - 14 hours ago
I really don't understand, I am a sophomore in high school and I've had ONE girlfriend and that was back in middle school so you could hardly even...
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I live with my girlfriend and she is a great girlfriend but one night I got drunk at a party and woke up with another girl in my bed I went a week...
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