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Should I tell my boyfriend someone was hitting on me?

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Stephanie061490 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 2 months ago
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Last night I almost got raped. I went to this wireless store to top-up my cell and the only cashier working there kept hitting on me. He is also the assistant manager. He kept asking me if he could see my breasts and touch them and stuff. And he said that he wanted to take me into the back room and have sex with me.

He also kept saying things like he's good in bed and he sleeps with his neighbor who's married and he also sleeps with his ex girlfriend who's a dancer. He is 27 and I'm 17 there's a big diff. Should I tell my boyfriend about this incident?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
I would want my girlfriend to come to me about this so I could confront the guy and to me it shows that she went to me about it instead of hiding it or to telling someone else and I think it shows that she believes that her man will protect her.
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tex151 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
Not only him but also you should file a sexual harassment case against that guy at the phone store, contact his boss, tell the boss what happened, and if you really want I mean you can get the police involved, but that's up to you. At least tell your parents or something and they could do something about it, unless all that you said was exaggerated and he just hit on you, if he just hit on you don't do anything, but if he said sexual remarks to you and tried to get you to sleep with them tell someone.
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AJtogo (Age:Over 45)      When: 2 months ago
As jarett said you should tell the manager. You say you almost got raped. Did he touch you? That would be assault and you should tell the police.
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Jarett (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
No, you shouldn't tell your boyfriend. But you definitely need to tell the manager!
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untitled393 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
Yes, in my opinion you should, because I know from my perspective I might confront the dude, but I don't like when my girlfriend hides something from me and I find out another way, so just so it doesn't get to him by other means you should tell him.
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lordian (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
Yes, it will help him remember that you are with him and choose him over anyone else. He also might get mad at the cashier. Also you should tell the manager, that's a really serious sexual harassment issue that you just faced, and you should really tell someone before it gets out of hand and happens to someone else.
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sequinfanrple (Age:30 to 35)      When: 2 months ago
If I were you, I would alert the police and the manager of this store, get someone to go with you. Then tell your boyfriend. IF he is the first to know, what happens if he flies off the handle and then confronts or assaults the guy who harassed you. Then he would be in trouble and this guy could get away with this whole thing. You won't know what way your boyfriend will react to this, even if he is a gentleman. Good luck.
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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)      When: 2 months ago
Firstly, you should report this to the cops. You should probably tell your boyfriend, too. you don't know now, but it may affect your relationship in some way. Weather it be that you don't feel safe or whatever, it could be an emotional problem in the future. Some people deal differently. My sister was raped and she just repressed the memory. To this day she doesn't feel safe when going anywhere (she carries a knife and pens with her). Even though you weren't raped, it was a close enough encounter to probably affect you.
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johnmarshallgirl (Age:30 to 35)      When: 2 months ago
Id tell the freaking cops get his ass arrested.
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