Where should I go to find a good guy?

There's no reason you can't find a quality guy at a bar or club. You could just as easily meet a guy at a library, but is that guy any less worthy of dating if you happened to meet him 8 hours later at the local bar? I think not.

If you don't like the bar or club scenes then start fishing you social circle. Hit some parties, join a club or three, and start approaching guys you see during the day at places like Target, the grocery store, etc.

One of my female friend has met good guys at the bookstore. She is very outgoing and is very clever about bumping into these guys once in the bookstore, so if you have that type of personality maybe that works; I think I wrote the example in another post, but basically my friend goes to a bookstore, scans the area for guys she likes, once she finds one, she walks by him and normally drops something, like her keys; now, she also carries a cup of coffee in another hand, that way the guy will of course be obligated to pick up the keys;at that moment my friend goes into her attack which goes something like, 'well, thank you so much; you're very nice---say, what book you got there.." and the conversation continues....Oh yea, one thing is that my friend has a very high intellect so she is able to carry conversation about any literary genre, so makes it easier to meet the higher quality guys out there...good luck.