When dating, how long should a respectable female wait until going to bed w/ someone?

If a woman wants me respect, and for me to stay with her, the fastest way is to have sex with me. After all, women don't have sex with just anyone right? This nullifies the logic that anyone can have sex with anyone. So not true. At my age grouping, very difficult to find women willing to do anything with men. Even more difficult to find virgins my age. If not impossible. Finally, I don't want to play the silly waiting games as I had done back in high school over 20 years ago. With older folks, either come strong or don't bother. Again, this is with mature folks.

Then again, I felt the same when I was your age.

With me, normally now this might sound bad, but when I get what I want from a woman like on a first date, I lose interest really fast unless there's major chemistry going on. I would say give a little preview as in bj or fingering, and even just sleeping in the same bed, but don't give it up on first date, because I would want more, and then when actually having sex most women would go for the second or third.

Well, it totally depends on how things are going. If there is a lot of chemistry, both physically and emotionally, then after the second date wouldn't be anything crazy. If things are slower to develop, then it might take 4 or 5 dates. I'd say play it by ear, but pretty much never after the first date.

Nobody can put a time frame on something like that! It is really a personal preference. I def don't think you should sleep with someone on the first date, or the second, or even third! I think you should get to know the person and feel comfortable with them. If they are looking for a relationship too, then they won't mind waiting a little while. I waited 6 weeks before sleeping with my boyfriend (but I was also a virgin), he didn't mind. The anticipation was great for both of us, and when we did finally sleep together it was amazing! I would suggest around 3 weeks as a decent average amount of time, but again it is a personal preference! You are the one who has to deal with the emotions afterward! Good Luck!

A LADY waits until marriage. Its that simple, the only problem is guy are tempting. But if you want a guy who will respect you, tell him, your waiting- if he pressures you, he is the wrong kind of guy, if he doesn't then you have the guy who will respect you.

Your right anyone can sleep with anyone but if you do want the respect that you sound like you do then you must respect your decision your gut gives you some women do go for it and feel like a fool after they sleep with a guy on the first date when they realize that the guy isn't going to want to buy the cow when the milk is free. I was with my last guy for three weeks before I slept with him. But I know a lot of my friends do have a one week rule so you know he's not a crazy person! Lol
go with your gut no one can tell you what to do in this situation but you
be confident in that decision and don't be pressured into having sex unless you want to

Oh and be safe