Update: I'm not just talking a week or two, or even a month/year, what if your girlfriend say no sex tell marriage, would you consider that unreasonable? And I'm not just talking full out sex, I mean no hand jobs, oral- nothing, would you consider that bad?
3 months ago
Waiting for marriage. Why? I didn't have sex until I was 19. The sex itself was ok despite the fact I was inexperienced. But the thought of waiting for marriage made me furious. I felt lied to and cheated! Sex is TOO good to be saved for marriage. The joy and pleasure was good but not the soul-reevaluating awakening that religion and moral fanatics say it is. After that, I chased women with renewed and enhanced vigor. I left religion because of it and never went back.
Sex is good and always have been. It's not lust, nor is it abuse of just using someone. Sex is the consent of TWO people. Forget that stuff about "purity and innocence lost forever", way overrated. The first time is actually not all that great because of the inexperience. Believe me, you DON"T want to have mediocre sex your first time with your married partner. You will be disappointed big time.
It is absolutely a reasonable request. Sex is something that ought to be enjoyed by both people and it will not be if one or both of you are hesitant. While sex does feel amazing physically, it is just as much an emotional experience and I would not suggest running into it too early. Trust me, I know.
I met a girl last year that I was immediately attracted to. Within a month we had done every major thing except having sex. I just didn't want to yet. I wanted to make sure she was the one that I wanted to lose my virginity to. One night she said we could only fool around if I promised to have sex with her. I was stupid and said, "Okay. " I was able to avoid it for two or three months, but eventually she started crying and saying that I broke my promise to her. Thirty minutes later I had lost my virginity to her.
The point behind my story is that you can only lose your virginity to someone once, make it the right person.
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
My first date, walk in the park wouldn't be a bad thing, Just regular clothes nothing special.Watch the moon raise up or sun go down one of the other .
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
That I am sensitive and that I get shy easily? hmm Maybe a little funny.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 3 months ago
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