What to wear when you're having sex?

I would suggest talking to him first about your concerns....and then maybe build up to the act.....one night be topless together...the next just bottomless....and take it from there.....but if and when you do actually have sex...its best to be naked....if you can't be naked, try to have your underwear to match...its always cuter to find that from a guys perspective....but to be honest, we love seeing a naked girl.....u don't have to be a kate moss or anything for us to enjoy it....just be yourself and have fun...thats what sex is all about.....

Wear a bra. Make it special,its your first time.

To be honest, it is understandable to be nervous your first time, but it seems you are not real comfortable with him. I would seriously think if you were really ready for that next step. I'm not one to be against casual sex with a partner but only if you are 100% comfortable enough to be your 'naked' self with your partner. You're already exposing yourself in the act only so have fun with it. Wear the bra and a tight shirt, gives you more to work with and tease him. The more comfortable you get with him the more layers you take off. Start with the bra, he'll think it's sexy to be able to take it off without removing the shirt, plus you won't feel exposed. If it feels right it's your choice what to do next. Sorry if I seemed blunt at first, just giving you something to think about.

What these people are saying is NOT necessarily true. Just because she's nervous about showing her body to her boyfriend doesn't mean she's not ready for sex or that she doesn't rust the guy enough. She's shy about her body and I'm sorry but 85% of us females are self conscious about our bodies. In my case, I can be totally, madly, deeply in love with a guy, feel comfortable with him, trust him but that aside I always will feel shy when the first time he sees me naked comes. There are many things I dislike about my body, it's a normal thing, so of course when that first times of baring it all comes. Yeah I'll be nervous and it has nothing to do with him or if I'm ready or not to have sex.

AND let me add, I'm a virgin so I get where you are coming from. I always wonder what will happen when the time comes for me and I'm scared to death of what the guy will think about my body and guess what? I don't even have a boyfriend. Yet, I sill ponder this all the time. Am I ready for sex? I know I am, I want to do it, I just am not involved with anybody at the moment.

You should tell your boyfriend that you're nervous because it's your first time and that you'd feel comfortable keeping your bra (or shirt) on. Who knows? You might get so into it, that all your insecurities will fall away and end up naked. Just be honest with him and if he cares enough about you, he'll understand.

If you are unsure and nervous exposin yourself maybe she wouldn't be doing it. I know you are young and it your first time make it special. How long have you dated him.

RED FLAG: You're nervous about exposing yourself to your boyfriend.
I hate to break it to you honey, but that tends to be part of the deal. Sex usually works better the less clothes you're wearing. But if you're not comfortable being totally naked around this guy, that's a sign that something's out of whack. You seem to be too concerned with how you look, which tells me that you're not as ready as you think you are. Ideally, you will feel so comfortable with this guy, that he takes away your nerves about your first time, instead of making you more nervous. So while you two may have gone pretty far already and your body's telling you you want to sleep with him, something isn't clicking. For one reason or another, you are not totally convinced that your boyfriend will think you are beautiful no matter what, and that is not right. Every girl deserves that at the least. Chances are, you two just haven't formed that strong emotional connection yet that allows you to be that completely open with him. Wait for that to happen. You will never regret waiting until you're sure.

If you don't feel comfortable exposing yourself to him all the way, then it sounds like your not ready for sex. Wait until your 100% comfortable with him before you do it.

Be like Juno
I'd go with t all the way

Honestly, if you nervous about exposing yourself- maybe you're not ready to have sex to begin with. I'll save the lecture because you're going to do what you want to do. I would just wear whatever you feel more comfortable in.