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Am I too big?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 2 months ago
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I'm overweight (5'4", 145 lbs. ) is this size/build completely unattractive to guys? My last boyfriend totally confused me when he told me that he doesn't date fat girls (then why was he dating me? )
Just curious if this is barely inside the borders of acceptable to guys or is it as repulsive as I often feel?

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Kenographer
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Kenographer (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
Thats a great weight. Your ex just wants a super model. Fuck those model looks. Its people like them that make women stare them selves. A friend of mine is 110 lbs. And is 5'-6 or 7". She keep on saying that she's to fat. WTF!? Your weight is just fine, perfect even. Outside appearance doesn't even matter to me, its the inside that counts.
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dohcrwd
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dohcrwd (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
I think its perfect,

You should be dress 4-5, 34C healthy looking girl.
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lyall
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lyall (Age:36 to 45)      When: 2 months ago
Don't worry about what you look like,there are so many guys and girls who like larger sized people, no it's not unattractive, people just tend to want things now,be patient and the guys will come around
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sexwiseman
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sexwiseman (Age:30 to 35)      When: 2 months ago
I wouldn't go as far as saying that's too big. Maybe some extra pounds but it all depends how you carry your weight and the type of body frame you got. I had a girlfriend that was 5'4 and 165 lbs and even though she was not thin, she had a very nice yummy body; then again she also had a fairly big rack and we used to say that those alone carry around 40 lbs. I do remember all the guys at work were lusting after her so at 145 you could be ok.
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Bubbles I know I'm not a guy, but sweetie that is not fat by far for your height. It is all how you carry your body - 2 months ago
 

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Shiner4
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Shiner4 (Age:Under 18)      When: A month ago
That is definitely not overweight. Actually that's prob perfect for your body type. Ignore him he wasn't worth it.
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AlienElyssa
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AlienElyssa (Age:Under 18)      When: A month ago
Sweetie,
I weigh the same as you do, only I'm 5'2..
guys like it when your not absolutely thin,
you probably fit your curves quite nicely,
just be proud of what you look like,
Don't take that from guys anymore
:)
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Lovin-laughter
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Lovin-laughter (Age:Under 18)      When: 2 months ago
Honestly you can't read someones height and weight and see if you like them. I think it's ridiculous that your even asking this question.
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JeVousAime
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JeVousAime (Age:Under 18)      When: 2 months ago
Pffft! I'm 5'4" and 9 stone so really, you're only a stone heavier!
I'm really just average and some of my friends are the same weight as you and they really fit into their curves.
Also, you may have more muscle than me (muscle weighs more than fat) and trust me, you probably have bigger boobs =P

Your ex-boyfriend who told you that has no right to call you fat because you're not fat at all.

Don't feel repulsed by your figure because there are guys out there who love a girl with some curves! I mean let's be honest, nobody wants to be cuddling up with a pair of sharp sticky-out ribs at night. =]
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