Me and my boyfriend are doing great. I mean really great. But I kind of want to try something new and I just want to try this once because I'm getting "bored" of the same all stuff. I kind of want to have another girl join us just once to spice things up a little. But I don't think he is as keen on the whole idea. Do you think I'll ever get him to try it at least once?
That can be the thrill of his life. But on the flip side, it has also been one of the biggest relationship killers. Some relationships can handle it. Most can not. Good thing is your still young and there are plenty of fish in the sea for you right now. Maybe now is a better time than any. Good luck.
First thing is wow! I give it to you for being comfortable enough to try it with another girl. Not a lot of woman would admit to wanting to do something like that. I also can't believe you are getting bored and you are not even out of high school. I will admit I wasn't very active, just twice before, I hit college. Then I became very experimental with positions and such. You are doing it right though by keeping it spicy in the relationship, but the only thing is you may get questioned on where these ideas are coming from. When I suggested trying new things with an old girlfriend of mine, she quickly asked where I was getting these ideas. I told her from men's magazines. This apparently caused her to be self conscious about her appearance, thinking I preferred the woman in the magazines over her. I had to convince her it was not that way, that I was into her and her alone. He will come around on the idea, but you need to reassure him that this is for both of you. That you are there for him and not the girl being brought in to the mix, or that this will lead into other things beyond his sexual boundaries. Again I have to hand it to you though, I would jump on the idea if a girlfriend brought it up to me, lol!
Never hurts to ask him. If he's not down with 2 girls-1 guy, then ask him what would he like to do? He just may surprise you. It is good that you are trying to spice up your relation with him and give you your proper kudos. Nobody can tell you that you are not doing YOUR part, now it is up to him to do his part.
Most guys would die to have their girl want to do a three-way. Just be sure it's what you want there are a lot of feelings to consider when bringing another person into a loving relationship.
Well, first of all, that's very unusual for a guy to not be interested in a 3some. However, I think you should look into other ways of spicing it up if he is uncomfortable with the idea. Try different positions, different places, such as the counter, table, floor, couch, car, outside, etc. As somebody else said, you are way too young to be bored with it. Communicate and tell each other what you like and don't like and what you both want to try.
You are WAY too young to be BORED with your sex life! Talk to him! Tell him you want more excitement! But I would not recommend you bring in another girl! That will most likely cause more problems, especially at your age! He might get jealous, or you might get jealous, you don't need that kind of drama. Try using toys and accessories! Good Luck!
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