I'm curious as to what motivated you to actually engage in intercourse for the first time. Be straight there is no judgment here. I have heard a number of the reasons below from some of my clients, but I'm curious on a larger scale.
I just wanted to see what the big fuss was all about. After, I was like. Ouch (broken hymen) then I was like. "that's it? ". I have no regrets, I was protected and responsible.
I was in love =] I was going to wait until marriage though me, and my soon to be hubby were friend's since we were on training wheels, honest we started dating when I was 14 on, and off again though it got serious when I was 17 around that age =]
One night though we were at his house, home alone in the kitchen , and I was putting chocolate syrup on some ice cream since we were making sundays, and I went to shake the bottle since it seemed empty though the lid wasnt on tight enough, and it went splashing onto my neck, and cleavage since I was wearing a tank top, he laughed at me then playfully came over to me while I was pouting, and started to lick/kiss the chocolate off , I was giggling like a little kid since we never went further than kissing, then it just felt differently it started to get serious he just gave me this look like everything was ok , knowing I wanted to wait till marriage, it just seemed right he never once pressured me into intercourse so I knew it was okay I had this little tick in my stomach, my heart was fluttering feeling at the top of a roller coaster scared of heights, next thing you know I was lifted up onto the counter top doing the usual kissing, touching, it got so sensual, passionate not hot and heavy horny sex, then I playfully pulled him into his bedroom laid there, and told him I wanted him to be my first so he took my virginity two years later proposed on christmas =]
It was just that look that made me think it was okay. though I can't stay off of him now we have sex every night! he doesn't seem to mind haha ;]
I was 19, horny as all living hell, and was my last night as a civilian before leaving for the Army. The girl I was seeing had no intention of staying with me so that night, we made out in a dark grassy park. I was blown away at the experience! Despite the fact I was a virgin, I was enthralled at the joy and pleasure. I was never going to wait until marriage and was trying to get laid since age 13(with no success). I felt that if I am to die for my country, I wasn't going to die a virgin.
After that memorable night, I denounced religion and the whole stuff about morals and purity. Why? I was furious at this ideology about waiting. I felt lied to and purposely left out by society that it took so long for me to have sex(being short and black didn't help my dating chances either). I declared sex was too good for waiting for that one and only person in life and encourage people everywhere that sex was never a bad thing, just an ideal that is horribly twisted by church and close-minded idiots. My quest for sex was increased with vigor after that night! My banner for god sex and love flies high with pride and determination!
Good for you. I think our country is starting to get it. It will be interesting to see what happens in a dozen years when the current age group has less political power. - 4 days ago
Well I wanted to wait tell I was married cause that's the way I was raised but I also wanted to know what it felt like and I didn't want to be 18 and still a virgin so I had sex a weeks before my 18th birthday and I'm thankful I did cause it would have sucked if I waited tell I was married and had no idea what I was doing lol
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