How do I get an orgasim during sex?

A lot of women can't orgasm during regular intercourse. Try masturbating to see what turns you on first. Then have the guy perform oral sex on you.

Ok when your having sex make sure his body is as close to you as he can get. You want him to do this because when he is f***ing you and his body is close that spot between his belly button and dick is rubbing on your clit and you have to have clit action to have an orgasm. Need anything else just ask

For me, a whole lot of it is about controlled pressure and the right rhythm. So, you have got to figure out what your body responds to before you start mixing it up with a partner's rhythm.

Personally, I began masturbating at a very young age and learned what my body best responds to. I would try using a pillow or two stacked atop each other and sit on them with your knees touching the floor. Then grind yourself into the pillows in a circular motion which will stimulate your clitoris. I would say about 2 rotations/sec. Increase the pillow height to maximize the pressure on you pelvic bone. You use your knees for adjusting your body and your hands on the floor for balance and support.

What can I say, that worked best for me. Never could get it from a finger or running water. It also helped me orgasm the first time I had sex because I learned how to move MY body to get off. When I just lay there and let HIM do all the work, I get no satisfaction because our rhythmic needs are different.

Hope this helps.