This is a touchy subject. Not meaning to cause a major fuss, but personally, I think trannies are gross as hell. If I met a date and found out just before we got busy that she/he is packing some meat down below, this would upset me big time. I cannot understand why people try to be cross gendered. How can you explain this to your friends and family? Why mislead people like this? Why even go thru the life of having to decide mens or women's bathroom? How can they face a man without telling them until it's almost too late? Befuddles me.
Fortunately, I have never ran into this scenario. I have seen one before at a truck stop, the looks that man/woman got was worse than black-white situation I ever went thru. This is quite different from meeting gays/lesbians, they will at least tell you what they are.
Well, as they say, a bisexual is a person who can put their hand into their date's pants and be satisfied with whatever they find there. I have no problem with transsexual or trans gendered individuals (and there is a difference between the two). I also don't think that trans people should have to announce the nature of their genitalia to everyone they meet. Especially in the case of someone who has had sex reassignment surgery and is now a member of the opposite sex to their birth both psychologically and biologically.
That being said, I think it is wrong for a trans gendered person (i.e. someone who has not had sex reassignment surgery) to lead a person on without that person knowing their situation. If I thought I was dating a person of one sex and found out I was not - well, it would depend on how close we were at that point. I might be able to go on dating them, or I might not be.
However, you should be aware that people don't "decide" to be trans any more than someone "decides" to be gay, lesbian, or bisexual. I have a friend who is trans gender. He was born a woman but always felt that he was really male. Long before he transitioned, when he was living as a girl, he felt weird going into girl's bathrooms. Now, he's still biologically a woman, because he hasn't had reassignment surgery, but he's living as a man. Legally, I'm not sure what his status is, to be honest, but his friends respect his feelings by referring to him as "he" and by his adopted male name, and he's upfront with his potential romantic partners. Some accept it, some don't. But he feels that to live as a woman would be lying to himself.
Disagree completely. People do indeed decide if they want to become gay or bi or whatever. All it takes is some traumatic event to change, sometimes not even that much. - A month ago
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Really? Do they? I would love for you to tell me what traumatic event made me wake up one morning and decide I liked women. - A month ago
I find it hard to use your theory to explain instances where men have admitted to being gay, despite knowing that they would be disowned by their family and destroy most, if not all, of their life's goals. A lot of times, men come out of the closet and later try to convince themselves that it was a mistake and they're really straight. Eventually, they realize that they're just gay. I don't think that it's a choice. - A month ago
I actually know one! If you look at her she looks hotter than me! You know how many guys she has dated and they don't even she's a real guy. It's gross and funny! We all went out once to a night club and man let me tell you. Men were drooling over her/him! So guys, don't be surprised if any of you had checked one out! I'm sure every men in this world had hit on one at least once in their lifetime without even noticing! Sorry, but it's the sad truth! I've seen this with my own eyes.
I saw a Maury Povich episode that focused on 10 women, 5 of them were trannies. The crowd had to guess them all correctly. I only got 5 of them right, 3 were the "opposites" Yuck! I cannot for the life if me understand why a person would want to change their life this way. To go from on gender to another is I massive undertaking! No thanks. I like real women. I did - A month ago
I will not date one, but friends is ok. nothing much.
in the city of San Francisco, gay and lesbians TG is very common. there is even a section of town is run by the gays (CASTRO) and its only 3 miles from where I used to work
I'd be completely lost for words I'm sure. Speechless! I wouldn't embarrassed her/him but I'd definitely get out of whatever close relationship we were in, if any. Also, I'd kinds feel I was tricked. I'd probably ask how that all came about but I"d definitely feel weird I think..
Your sweeping generalizations of trans gendered people and gay people is slightly exaggerated, I'd say. Not all gay people will "tell you what they are", and not all trans will hide it "until it's almost too late".
That being said, if I happened to be on a date with what I thought was a girl, and it later turned out to be a guy, that would be a pretty traumatic situation.
Yeah, that would definitely creep me out. Image making out with a perfect 10, then feeling something poking your waist. Gross. Honestly, I don't know why they do it. I have some feature about myself that I don't like but live with them, I don't change them.
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