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I think we are on the same page one day, and the next I am not sure...
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maureen (Age:30 to 35)     When: 4 days ago
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When you break up with someone, then become even better friends, then have sex together again, how do you know what to think. We still flirt and I am sure it will happen again, the sex. Just don't know what to think, or if I should even question any of it, but being a girl. I guess we think that way. Not sure if he is thinking about it or not either. I suppose I should talk to him about it. We are going to go to a convention soon together. But it will be weird.
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dohcrwd (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 days ago
Relationship is like time, only move forward, if you guys get back together again, things is not the same.

The best way is keep it friend
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BugginMint (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 days ago
It will only be weird if you make it weird. Just go with it and have fun. He's probably pretty excited the way things are. Don't push it and see where it all goes naturally.
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Question Asker Thanks, I appreciate your answer. I think he is excited about it. I know I am. I am just trying to go with it. - 4 days ago
 
 

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LiL-LAH (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 days ago
I am so in this situation well its a bit of the situation I'm in. I guess from my perspective is that its hard to break that bond? Like absence makes the heart grow fonder. Time apart strengthens though time back together can be weird. As long as its the good weird and not that I wanna hurt you emotionally weird then everything should be ok. Its like your trying to find out if this is your soul mate but not quite sure.
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Question Asker Exactly. I have been told by a soul memory expert that he is my soul partner, so I just have to see what happens. I know he would never want to hurt me, he is too good of a person for that. We will see. Thanks for your thoughts - 3 days ago
 
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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 days ago
well I'm not exactly sure what your question is. but, having sex with him still after ending the relationship is bad. one if you initiated it you might bring back feelings which you might not want or do want but he doesn't. two is he initiated the break up and the sex thats why he just wants to have sex with you, and he doesn't want to be with you but still likes you as a friend. three, if he initiated the sex and not the break up then he wants o be with you still and misses those feelings you two once had. hope i did something to help.
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Question Asker Thanks. I know was all over the place with my scenario. I have posted may stories about this already. He broke up with me last summer not ready to be serious. We have become great great friend with lots of flirting and the sex thing was almost more me wanting it, when he was always talking about respect. I don't know what to think. I do have feelings for him, but then if someone else asked me out, I would go out with them, because it is unclear as to what we are. Thanks again - 4 days ago
 
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