Okay so for a while I've always admired the beauty of both men and women, but lately it seems that I'm starring at women a lot more than men. Even worse I've been starring at one of my best friends! It's even gone to the point where I dream of her, but still have dreams about guys. I don't know what I am anymore. A little help please?
Probably you should try to find out some time with one of your girl friends where that you spend the night with sometimes. Or try getting closer to some girl that seems to like you. Maybe joke about kissing her or ask if she's ever kissed a girl. Stuff like that. One of these days one of those women will stare back at you and you can just try to strike up a conversation and see how that goes. Maybe have coffee or lunch together, but don't be hesitant of making a first move. You could be bi and a lot of girl are. Well I know some that are.
Why try to label yourself? Why not just go with the flow? If society didn't have such labels what would you do? Also, I do know that there are a lot of people who fantasize about situations with the same sex. Most of the real homophobes have actually done this and it is their fear of this that drives them to be stronger homophobes. It's actually kind of comical.
If you insist on a label then you could be bi-sexual or even ambisexual. Bi-sexual means that you like both men and women equally. Ambi-sexual means you might have a preference for one, but in the right moment be with another.
Well, seeing as you are under 18, maybe still going through puberty and changes, that is a very normal time to look at other women. Seeing the changes your body is going through on others, or that somebody has huge boobs and you are still flat. Those types of things. I would say don't worry about it. Even if you are bi-sexual, that's totally fine. Nothing to be ashamed of. Since it is your best friend, it would make sense to dream about her since you probably spend a lot of time with her and talking to her. At a young age, people rarely know exactly who they are. There is no need to be worried or concerned.
It could be a phase, or out of curiosity, or you could in fact be bi. None of those things are bad. I am straight and find many women very attractive. I'm actually looking at pictures of christina aguilera's boobs right now! Lol.
I got to agree, whatever you call it (straight, bi, or gay) there is nothing wrong with you. Right now I would consider you curious. Until you know you would act on something you don't know what you like. I am straight, but I probably have wondered about being gay. Then I say would I ever act on that. Hell no, it's not attractive to me. I am not against others who do it, but I know I am straight and only like women. I can appreciate a man with a ripped body, but only cause I want to be ripped. - 4 days ago
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
My ideal first date would be first we go to the movies and see a comedy after we would go somewhere slightly quiet but still fun so we can talk and get to know each other.
(Age:Under 18)
When: 4 days ago
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