Ok so I have this girlfriend and we like each other and I thought we loved each other but the other night she asked me if she could go and see a guy friend and I asked her if she trusted herself and she said idk kinda. So I was like what the hell, then she told me that if he tried he could probably talk her into doing something with him.... now there's this other girl who is absolutely amazing that is the most wonderful girl in the world... she just lights me up and I think I have a chance with her.. so do you think I should try and work things out with my girlfriend or try to hook up with the girl I have had a crush on?
I'd go for the new amazing girl. Why would you even HESITATE to think about staying with a girl who just treated you like yesterday's trash!? Dump her now.
I think you should really think about how YOU feel about your girlfriend. If you have a crush on this other girl then how into your current girlfriend can you be? I know guys have it hardwired into their brains and can't help looking at other girls, but you've admitted that you like this girl. That's more than just looking. You even said she's "the most wonderful girl in the world". Shouldn't you be saying that about your girlfriend? Sorry, I don't mean to be harsh, but it kind of sounds like you're looking for an excuse. It looks to me like you've already chosen.
Well your girlfriend is obviously having trouble being monogamous. If she can't trust herself to staying true to you, then do you really even WANT to be with a girl like that?
As for this wonderful girl you've met, regardless of how great she makes you feel, DON'T CHEAT ON YOUR GIRLFRIEND WITH HER. You have no proof that your girl has cheated on you, and even if she has, 'getting even' isn't the way to go about it. Don't sink down to that level, because then you're just as lame as her. If this girl you've just met makes you so happy, break up with you current girlfriend (who's already dropping hints that she could hook up with other guys) and get with this new girl!
Ultimately it's up to you, do you want to stay in a relationship with your current girlfriend? Or are you ready to move on to someone who makes you happy? Make the decision, pick only ONE girl, you can't have both. Cheating is LAME
First off, your girlfriend is wrong. If she cared about you, then no dude should be able to woo her into doing something with him. If I were you, I would leave her because she isn't thinking about you. In fact, she's being straight grimy. How do you not know if you are going to be faithful or not. That's some old bull ish. If you like this other girl, go for it, especially if she makes you feel good.
You can't control your girlfriends actions. If she is going to "Let herself got talked into something" then that means she ultimately wants it. She doesn't want to say it to hurt your feelings because in some way you still make her feel special. But not enough to make her stay true to you. Don't let her use you anymore. I would cut my losses where they stand, whether you end up with the new girl or not. Before you expect to much out of this relationship.
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