Girls how do you feel about a guy that is sensitive.

haha, wow that's awesome.
I wouldn't say "sensitive" is the right word for which most girls are attracted,
but thoughtful, and caring. Tough on the outside, soft on the inside. That's how I like em anyway ;)

Sensitive guys are a good thing. But not too sensitive. A cocky guy is just annoying. A prankster gets on your nerves easily. Like Bam Margera from jackass. I personally like guys that can keep it tough but is not afraid to open up to girl or someone they can trust.

And about you opening up to that girl you barley knew. I think it's because you know how you closest guy friends will act. Sometimes, it's easier to talk to someone that doesn't know you so well, you know that they will know you from how you opened up to them. Like me, I can talk to my friends about almost everything, but not my parents. They don't even know about my past boyfriend!

My best guy friend is sort of like that too. It takes a lot of guts to really open up to someone. And you took the first step. Yes, you were vulnerable and emotional, but part of any relationships requires that people open-up to each other in a real, mater-of-fact sort of way. I find that sensitive people tend to have a good nature about them. They are truly affected by things. They are perhaps more human that those that spend all their lives guarding their feelings. If you can truly cry in front of someone it not only shows that you are totally real and human, it shows that you have a sense of vulnerability. I do not think that is such a horribly bad thing. Your affected by things in your environment, you are moved by situations/things, and likely you are probably a very kind and sensitive person who understands how people feel. These are qualities that people have forgotten. Sometimes in our most deep and dark times, we must look into ourselves and become in touch with sometimes terrible memories or situations. But really, that is important. In short, your sensitivity shows that you do not care for gender stereotypes, but real authentic conversations about life. I wish more people were like that.

Well, this is really hard to answer. I love guys that are kind and sensitive. One of my really good friends is a guy and I have never met a guy like him. He is very sensitive, and because I'm not used to guys showing their feelings and truly feel for others, its nice. But, I think when it gets "unattractive" is when a guy cries ALL the time about everything, because if he did I would feel like I needed to take care of him, which that is a lot of responsibility and you start to feel like your parenting him, not dating, and that's not fun. I guess what I'm trying to say is there is NOTHING wrong with being sensitive, I think its a good thing. But you also want her to feel like she can lean on you and you can be strong for her. You don't want to make it a habit to cry on her every time you hang out. Also some girls don't like it when guys cry and will be retarded about it, which is stupid, I'm tired of guys that are jerks and to me it takes more of a man to cry in front of a girl than to hold everything in. You just need to hold out for a girl who is going to love that about you. I hope that helps. I don't know what else to say. Haha

I can't really answer this question from a girl's perspective, but anyway, here goes. I'm also really sensitive. I think that I always have been, but I've only become more in touch with that side of me in the past year or so. In junior school, I was also very emotionally raw, or at least I cried easily. When I left my first school, I swore never to cry in front of anyone again. I was badly hurt by that, and I regret it. Sure, I needed to reign in my emotional outbursts as that wasn't helping me, but I became an emotional wreck and nobody could help me. They never knew about it as I shielded myself from them.

I recently started to find that I can share my deepest emotions and relieve that pressure by my writing. I write answers on this site, I write stories on another site called fanfiction.net (no spaces), and I write on forums. That's the way I get relief, or at least it helps me to face the issues behind the emotions and then move on.

As far as the girls, and how they felt, I don't think that girls in junior school liked it all that much. I really would start crying at anything - shouting, pain, fear, whatever. Now, I have a tighter control on my emotional reactions, but I still am more honest with them. People aren't as shut out as they once were, and I think that girls seem to prefer that I have control, but that I let them in.