Okay me and my boyfriend are like perfect for each other. But when we try doing some stuff I can't get an orgasm. I have tried to relax but it just doesn't do anything when he eats me out or fingers me or even when we have sex HELP.
There is nothing wrong with you! There is a large number of women out there that don't have orgasm with their partner. Can you do it when you masturbate? Part of the problem is that we are not taught how to have sex and we are taught that sex is bad and wrong. These are all things that can lead to this. Several things you can do including going to a professional to a professional daka or dakini (male/female sexual healers and educators). You can also not try to make having an orgasm be a goal. Enjoy what you are doing and if an orgasm happens then great! There are breathing techniques that can help you to get into your body. The bottom line is there is a lot you can do.
Do a google search for Tantra. If you are in the Denver area look up sacressexcolorado. Com and find some good practitioners.
You should try doing it yourself then. There's nothing wrong with it and you'll learn what feels good and what doesn't. Be patient. It took me a few times before I figured out how to do it. And once you can do it yourself you'll be able to tell your guy what to do.
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