I used to be religious and went to church now I am not going to church anymore I am not a virgin I only been with one guy we been having sex for about 4 and a half years I love him and I know he loves me. He wasn't a virgin when we met I was he was patient and waited 6 months before we had sex. Am I a slut? What do you guys think I am 24.
Update: In the view of god I am a sinner I had sex before married I do drink and swear and I am sure having a tattoo doesn't help me either. Maybe I am not a slut just a bad person
A month ago
Update: Thanks everyone for your input on my question. Just wanted to make sure I wasn't. I don't go to church because I am not really religious anymore before I met him I was but then I kind of change and maybe it a bit of guilty why I barely go to church. Thanks
A month ago
You were with one guy. The definition of a slut is having sex with lots of guys or girls for that matter. So your not a slut. Plus you waited six months and you stuck with him for 4 1/2 YEARS!!! Thats a long f***ing time ok. Your fine and God forgives sins so don't worry I think your good. Remember God has unconditional love for everyone and he forgives those who ask for forgiveness so stop worrying your still a Christian if you believe and accept ok!!
What happens if I don't end up with this guy he cheated on me and we are trying to work things out but if I don't end up with this guy am I a bad person if I have sex with someone else because it didn't work out with me and this guy. We are trying to work it out we love each other we dated for over 5 years - A month ago
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If he cheated on you all I can say is leave him. It won't matter if you end up getting together with someone else and have sex with them. Your obviously an adult and I would say that you know what your doing and wouldn't have sex with just anyone. You are the type like me that only has sex with someone you know loves you and that's what matters. But never stay with a cheater its just trouble and you'll never trust him again no matter how hard you try hun. End it now and take some time to get over it - A month ago
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I know I should end it he really broke my heart when he cheated we are really trying we went on a break to try and work things out and we are still on the break he met someone had a fling with her and I told him he had to stop. Now he as stopped his still her friend. We are trying to work things out now we will see what happens. I know he loves me and I love him he needs to be loyal. - A month ago
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I'm sorry to say hun but he suggested the break to be free of you cause he doesn't love you. He wants to go out and f*** other girls cause he doesn't love you. Don't fool yourself just cause your in love with him. What he did was bad and you shouldn't be with him cause there is someone out there that will treat you better. Which is all you deserve. No woman should stay with a man who cheats cause he will do it again if he did it once. You have to break it off please if not for that reason then - A month ago
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For the sweet guy that's out there waiting to treat you like a queen. Don't settle for what you have cause you think he loves you please don't do that I have seen too many girls fall for that and he always cheats again and it breaks their heart. Every girl deserves a man that's loyal just like every guy deserves a woman that's loyal. Just think about all that cause you deserve so much more than what he's given to you. You deserve to be happy and not heart broken so don't make excuses for him, break up - A month ago
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I know I need to. I just keep on giving him chance I am really sad and depressed he is ok and happy about the situation. I am giving him sex and so is some other girl. - A month ago
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Please don't I hate to see you suffer like that. Cut him off from sex and out of your life you don't need to do that to yourself. Don't stay with him just cause you love him and THINK he loves you please just don't listen to him. If you need to talk more message me I can help you to let go if you need help! - A month ago
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You said I can message you what your user name. It just so hard I love him so much. - A month ago
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Its sqyntz11 or you can get on yahoo messenger and my sn there is joshtravis11. You can just click on my name on here and view my profile and send a message from there! - A month ago
Sexual relations with others is a natural thing. You aren't a slut or a bad person at all for wanting to experience it. If you have a religion you believe in, and it's upsetting you to not be living the life path you think you should be living based on that religion, attempt to atone for what is bothering you by talking with the clergy or other members of your church/family.
You are having a monogamous relationship with a man, most religions are willing to accept that with a grain of salt. The worst that might happen is some pressure to get married to each other. Keep that in mind if you attend some services.
Yeah, you probably did step over the line since you're still doing it. What's keeping you from getting married or going back to church? Some people talk about religions people being fanatics but it's those very same people that call them that are the ones that have no right or wrong conscious working in their heads anymore when it comes to sex and the sad thing is that they promote it too others as being fun and entertainment for all. Regardless, I think you're definitely NOT a slut nor are you a bad person either. But I'd say that eventually it might not be a bad idea if you could work on those two issues. You might just find your life taking away those thoughts you're having right now and you'd feel that your life is in better order and that you're happier. I have a hunch that you're not overly happy right now or you wouldn't be concerned about this as you are now. Good luck! It's a good thing that you're coming upon realization about all this.
Sometimes, I feel this website is nothing more than a battleground between the sex lovers and the morally religious fanatics. I see this same question just too many times.
SEX IS A GOOD THING AND ALWAYS HAVE BEEN! YOU ARE NOT A SLUT!
Understand? Good (^_^). Of course, my post will receive the most disagreements.
Your not a bad person, if your a bad person then the worlds in the shitter, because sex before marriage is like he said unheard of a lot nowadays. I've only met 3 people where I live that are waiting. And they do all kinds of. Oral. Related stuff lol.
Sounds like your a good caring person def not a slut or a bad person geez don't be so hard on yourself, waiting for marriage to have sex is unheard of so drink up and swear while your getting a new tattoo!
I just don't want to be a slut. I know I am not perfect as long as people don't think I am a slut I am good just wanted to make sure I wasnt a slut. Cause I am not a virgin anymore - A month ago
Your definetly not a slut hun. You did what you felt was right and you did it for love. People like you actually make me smile inside because your not doing it "just for fun". I find those to be the slutty girls. And a bad person? Hun, please, no. How does swearing or having a tattoo make you a bad person? Sure, I'm not religious, but seriously. Don't think so negatively about yourself.
Thank you I am glad I make you smile. I don't just have sex for kicks., I did it when I was really in love we waited 6 months I have no regrets waiting that long he was my first. he the only guy I been with I love him and want to make him happy. I want him to be loyal. thanks for your support - A month ago
Nope not one bit. There are guys and girls out there that have sex with multiple people. I know a guy who slept with over 300 girls before he settled down with the girl he is with. Its sad but who is to judge. your by far not a slut just a girl who is in love with a guy and you have sex... (Maybe a ring in the future!!!!) Good Luck!!!
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