Ok, I was talking to this girl for about a month, she was soo sweet, I treated her like a godess, she had just gotten out of a 5 year relationship a few months prior and she told me all about it and they still had a apartment together which she didn't live at anymore, she made it clear that they were done, she told me to take it slow, I was kinda aggressive because I liked her so much, we talked a lot, slept together, she said things like I was love at first site, how amazing I am, how happy she was that I stepped into her life, I met her parents and her boss it was going good. her ex wanted her back and was persistent and she finally told him about me and then she started acting strange I asked if she was talkin to him and she got mad told me she wanted space, a few days later, I looked on her myspace and she had him back as a friend in the top spot, I was soo pissed I said a bunch of mean shit, she said she still had feelings for him and I shouldn't call her anymore, because things were so overwhelming, so now there back together and she said they were on and off before me but I thought they were done for sure, the dude is a dick to her and she told me tons a times how much she didn't love him anymore, iv texed her a few times since, its been a few weeks she never wrote back, I still like her a lot and I have a feeling she still likes me, if they don't workout is there a chance ill hear from her or should I let it go
Awh this happened my friend and to be honest if she's with him now and not you is she really worth your time to be her 2nd best? No. You look really good looking and you probably are a lovely fella so I'm sure you'll find someone just as nice as her or more nice you probably think ok that's bullshit but eventually you will :-)
You should definitely let it go. Love is not easily forgotten and even if you insist, she's not going back to you until she is completely ready. The same thing happened to me and I could not let go of my ex for the longest time even though he was a complete jerk. I had to realize by myself that I had to move on and no amount of attention from any guy could break me from him. Give her time, if it is meant to be, she'll come back to you, I know it sounds like a cliche, but I feel it is the truth. By the way same thing happened with my bf, he was still in love with his ex when we started seeing each other and he kept getting back with her. I let him go numerous times and he always came back to me. Now we are extremely happy together:-) Good luck.
Sometimes no matter how much you love something you gotta let it go. I only know this because I had to to the same thing before. I would not stop living your life and waiting for this girl to come back, but hey. If she does come back and you are available. Give it a try. Just remember though, she did hurt you in the past and the past is a good way to tell what can happen in the future. Good luck!
If this gal came back I would not give her a chance at all she has messed you about. Ok, if she did want to get with her ex she should have said. In a way she was cheating on you and messing with you. But if she does come back I would make her work it so hard but I would say no cahnce to her - 3 months ago
A few weeks ago, I met a woman while on a business trip to California. I'm in NY and she lives in Cali. When we met she talked about how she's been...
View Answers
So a close friend just got dumped by her boyfriend of two years. I'm trying to gauge how she's feeling by letting her start our conversations. We talk...
View Answers
For women, being married is the height of the romantic ideal. Some girls plan their weddings from the time they were in knees socks, which is why we consider weddings to be primarily for the woman....
This story is from my heart. First, I'd like to introduce myself, my name is Jesse.Sometimes we are faced with making decisions that we may not even know we are making in life.This story is an example...
(Age:25 to 29)
When: 3 months ago
Site Links
About GirlsAskGuys
GirlsAskGuys Widgets
Help Us Improve!
