OK you all know how sometimes when you have sex there is always some kind of emotional attachment. Well I didn't think i had this attachment to him but now I think it is clear I do! Well the think is I don't want it I don't like him like that at all and I think this emotional attachment is keeping me stuck on him! It is driving me crazy! And him calling me and asking to "hang out" again and again is so not helping! Cause I know he doesn't like me like that and me to him not at all!
There is a chemical in our bodies called oxytocin which helps to drive connection between humans. Males have it, but my understanding is not as much as females. When combined with estrogen (which males have little of) it creates a huge attraction for you to your partner. This is also apparently the reason women when having a baby fall immediately in love with their baby since the levels of both of these chemicals is elevated at birth.
What to do if you don't want to have that kind of connection would be to break it off completely for a while. Let that chemical addiction abate for a period of time.
Hey thanks that what I have been sorta trying to do and it was working for a while until his brother passed and me being myself wanted to comfort him cause I am his friend and can't stand to see people hurting and that made it worse! - 3 months ago
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