I am 24 never really masturbate what wrong with me I do enjoy sex and is seeing someone and we have sex I don't masturbate when he not around I know he does sometimes but he is a guy. What is wrong with me?
Masturbation sucks. It's sex by yourself. No fun. Nothing can replace the real thing with another person. Nothing. You can't do it by yourself and end up feeling really good about it, in many cases one will feel like an idiot jerking off or fingering themselves with nobody to share the passion with. Boring. I don't like masturbation either. The problem is that most of us just cannot have sex anytime we want so we masturbate when we are lonely but need to get off now and not later. You are perfectly fine, just have more control of yourself than many of us.
There could be a number of reasons why you don't masturbate. Some peoples sex drive isn't as high as others. Have you ever gone for long periods of time without sex and felt a strong urge to have sex? If you couldn't have sex with someone then did you have the urge to masturbate?
It could be because you haven't found the right touch or toy for your needs.
Then there is the possibility that it was drilled into you as you were growing up that it was bad and wrong. I know for me there was always the talk about "you'll go blind," or "you'll grow hair on your palms. " Talk like that can get to us and have it subconsciously turned off for us.
I don't think any of that means there is something wrong with you.
Have you ever masturbated while your partner watched you?
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
My ideal date would be something romantic and fun at the same time. Maybe dinner and then bowling. I would probably wear a cute pair of jeans and a nice top (turtleneck in the winter, sleeveless in the summer) with a pair of heels. The date ends with us both smiling like big dorks so much because we had a great time (LOL)and him making a second date right there.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
My date will know that I am a funny girl who loves to crack jokes and make people laugh. He will know that I'm very independent but I still love him to hold my door open for me and pull my chair out. He will also find out that I have a competitive streak but most of all he'll know that he can't live without me! LOL.