Is this a bad thing?

It's not really a bad thing, but he could spend his money more wisely. He should be spending a lot more on you.

Quite a few:

1. Metrosexual isn't bad or gay. If you like metrosexuality, then good for you. It's obviously good for him. If you want a different type of guy (quite possible, or you wouldn't have asked the question), just admit it and go get a different type of guy.

2. He doesn't spend "too much time" and money on his looks. Rather, he just spends more than you. The problem seems to be that you don't want him to be the way that he is. Your problem, not his.

3. You think that if you grow up in the projects, you're more dirty and un-stylish for a "metrosexual. " Again, your problem, not his. Grow up wherever, then become whatever you want to be. I'm not suggesting you become President of the United States or Quarterback of the New England Patriots here (though, optimistically, you could become the former if you just took more showers and tried). The "impossible" dream for you is instead whether you can take showers and like nice clothes. Of course you can, if you want to. Even with no money, at least take your showers, and aspire to the clothes (read Vogue/GQ even if you don't shop very often).

4. So you're too dirty to have sex with this boy? Sheesh. Either your are very candid (and should value hygiene more) or you have a serious self-confidence problem. Either way, its your problem. Either become hygienic, or if you already are, be proud of who you are.

5. If he really showers 7 times a day then he is likely obsessive/compulsive. Exaggeration, right? If you're just trying to put him down for showering some reasonable amount (but more often than you) then why bother? Insecure about your own shower frequency?

6. I have no idea what "spend 100 bucks on my feet" means. He likes shoes that cost 100 bucks? Big deal. If guys rejected girls who liked 100 buck shoes, there'd be very few girls left over to choose from. The point yet again is: why are you critical of the things he does that make him who he is? Either embrace him, or choose a different guy. But quit judging him for his innocuous personal preferences. If the worst thing your guy does is buy $100 shoes, you've got a relatively vice-free guy on your hands, btw. Most of us drink too much beer, smoke (more than cigs, too), gamble (sometimes over our heads), cheat (like 50% of the time), fight (each other, our girlfriends, the system. Guys love a conflict), commit crimes (most crimes in fact), fart (well, you do too, but we really celebrate ours), and so on. If the knock on this guy is metrosexuality, he's not so bad.

He might just want you for sex. In which case you're wise to be looking for a way out, but don't blame it on "metrosexuality. " Just admit you feel bad because your with a guy who only wants sex and move on to a better guy.

Or, he really likes you. In which case you're blowing it by being overly judgmental and underly self-confident.

Or, he's secretly gay, not really a straight metrosexual. But I doubt it because he wants sex with you, right?

He might be on the road to being gay if you ask me. Just dress your style up a bit and maybe your self concious will be uplifted.

I totally had the same problem. I thought why he would want me. But I loved him and he loved me and it worked. As for physical part of your relationship, just take your shower before you see him just in case.